10 Easy Ways to Flirt with an Aries Man - wikiHow (2024)

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Dress yourself up.

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1. Aries men love a dressed-up look. Mirroring his style or complementing his colors are ways to get his eyes on you. An Aries isn’t afraid to try out the latest fashion trends, so keep an eye on what’s in style to keep up with him.

   • Try wearing a cute black dress or a fitted button-up shirt tucked into trousers to catch his eye.
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Use body language.

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1. Aries men are known for their sensuality, and they love flirty body language. Keep your eyes on him. Show your interest with a warm smile or lean in closer when he’s talking to you. Don’t be afraid to nod along when he’s talking, too. Aries men like to be shown they’re right or agreed with.^[1]

   • Playing with your hair is a great way to show off your flirty side.
   • Laugh at his jokes and show off those pearly whites.
   • Reader Poll: We asked 765 wikiHow readers about how Aries men typically flirt, and only 7% said by flexing his muscles or showing his skin. [Take Poll] So, look for other signs that he’s flirting with you back, such as making intense eye contact.

Play a game of cat and mouse.

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1. Aries men love a good chase. If you come out of the gates too strong, he might be turned off, so don’t be afraid to be coy now and then.^[2] Aries men like to be the pursuer in the relationship, so make him work for your affections before going all in.

   • Act reserved and mysterious at first. He'll be dying to know how you really feel.

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Offer him a compliment.

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1. Aries men like attention, so complimenting him is a good way to flirt. Subtlety isn’t an Aries man's strongest suit, so a bold compliment is a good way to let him know you’re interested. Try complimenting what he’s wearing or how good his dancing is.^[3]

   • “That shirt really brings out your eyes.”
   • “You have a great smile.”
   • “You were the best dancer on the floor tonight.”

Be clever.

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1. Aries men love a clever partner who can challenge them. A little wordplay is a great way to break the ice, so get your best one-liner ready. If you’re comfortable taking the leap, a sexy line is a bold move to get his adrenaline pumping.^[4]

   • “What do you do for a living, besides looking sexy?”
   • “There must be something up with my phone. Your number’s not in it yet.”
   • “I might have some trouble not touching the artwork in front of me.”

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Give him a chance to show off.

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1. Aries like to show they’re number one. If you’re out with friends, start a competition. Aries men have a drive to win like no other, so this is a good way for him to show you his best and for you to do the same. After it’s over, don’t forget to slip in a compliment about his strength or his physique.

   • See who can make the best co*cktail.
   • Try to guess the next song that will play in the club.
   • Have a dance-off. The best dancer gets to pick the next date.

Start a playful debate.

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1. Aries men enjoy a lighthearted back-and-forth. Ask him his opinion on an interesting topic and then playfully disagree with him. He'll love it. Keep things lighthearted though. You want a fun debate, not a heated disagreement.^[5]

   • You could ask him something like, “How do you feel about pineapple on pizza?” or "What do you think the best genre of music is?"

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Surprise him.

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1. A little surprise can go a long way when you’re flirting with these guys. Compliment him on something unexpected or offer a suggestion for a new drink to try. Present him with tickets to a concert or ditch the bar scene and go to that dance club across town. The bold approach can show him you’re willing to take risks. Show him you can keep up with his energy by throwing him off his game now and then.^[6]

   • “I noticed you come here often. How about we go to the bar across town that just opened?”
   • “You really like that band, so I got you tickets to their next show this weekend.”

Get him something unique.

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1. A one-of-a-kind gift is a great way to show him he's special to you. It doesn’t necessarily have to be expensive, but it should be unique to him. Aries men like to stand out, so if you notice a good conversation piece, pick it up and show your Aries you were thinking of him. They typically value experiences over things, but something sporty or hand-engraved is a good way to go.^[7]

   • You’ll score some points if you get him a jersey with his favorite player’s number.
   • An engraved pocket watch or necklace is a great choice.
   • A unique mug or stein can be a simple yet striking conversation piece.^[8]

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Be honest and sincere.

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1. An Aries man wants someone who is authentic. Don't be afraid to be vulnerable. Ask him deep questions or share your life ambitions. Aries men might be considered playboys from time to time, but let him know you're not just another pretty face.^[9]

   • Ask him what's on his bucket list.
   • Tell him about your most passionate hobby.
   • Let him know what you want in life.

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