Wait... what... is this really happening at this moment?!? There are a million things that will probably cross your mind after your significant other begins to ask you the big question. You may have been waiting for it since you knew they were "the one". You may have even had a conversation or two with your partner that led you to believe this day was fast approaching. But here you are and you are blown away none-the-less.
I myself responded in disbelief when my now-husband asked me, followed by how did you do this (zero grace on my part), then by not hearing a thing he said until "Will you marry me?". I love our engagement but I sure wish I calmed down and listened to what he was saying. If only someone had told me what to expect from myself and given me a few pointers to make it a little more memorable on my part. So after studying many proposals I came up with a few things tohandle this momentous occasion with grace and ease!
1. First things first... take a breath. Your mind is racing and you are quickly trying to evaluate the situation to figure out if it is really happening right now. Let me tell you... it is! So take a breath and refocus so you can enjoy this once in a lifetime moment.
2. This moment is about you and the person you want to spend your life with. If there are family or friends, a photographer/videographer, or other distractions happening around you, try to block those out and really listen to what your partner is saying to you at that moment. Chances are they are things that you want to hear and important reasons your significant other wants you to say "yes".
3. Just go with the flow and let things unfold naturally. Don't worry about what you look like, the mood you were in 2 seconds ago, or the circ*mstances. This is the perfect moment your partner chose to ask you - so just go with it! Let your partner lead the way. Here is an example of how not going with the flow can complicate things.
4. Your response is everything. The natural response that I have heard many times is something along the lines of "Are you serious?" followed by a "yes". Keep in mind that your other half may be a tad nervous waiting for your response - try not to keep him or her in suspense!
5. Relax and enjoy the moment after the "yes" for as long as you'd like. You have time to call mom and dad or hug the friend that helped put this whole engagement together. There's plenty of time to spread the news and much celebration to be had. But don't forget what all this is really about - the love you and your partner share and your life together.
I love watching proposals... You get to witness the unique, personalized way someone chooses to ask the love of their life to spend forever with them. You can't help but be joyful because you get to witness love. That's what it's all about, isn't it? In watching these proposals I've also noticed people's reactions vary when responding to this anticipated question.Here are some of my favorites that I have come across:
Some people are super creative - Check it out!(This may be my favorite)
Even if you don't remember my tips and tricks when it does happen, you and your spouse will have a story to tell about the moment you both decided to spend your lives together. Best wishes from our team!
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You might also say something like “I can't believe this is happening” or “I'm so happy” before you say “yes.” “Absolutely, 100% yes!” “Nothing would make me happier!” or “It would be my honor!” are other things you might say.
Something that tells her she's the most important person in your life and your future is going to be wonderful: I love you and promise to show you every day how much. We're going to have such a great life, babe. You're the best thing that's ever happened to me.
Remember the good things you want about them and put them forward before your rejection text messages. For example, you can say: “I appreciate your proposal, but I am not interested in a relationship.” Understand that if they try to push further after this, it is not your fault, and they are disrespectful.
I think first you should clear your mind and think from your heart. what exactly are you thinking about the one who proposed you. if its the same feeling then go ahead other wise politely be friend with her and make her understand whats in your heart about her. Doing this will be a comfort for both of you.
Talk to her, face her as you were earlier as nothing happened between you two. It will not be easy for you initially but it will be good for you both. She will think that you are strong enough to handle yourself and may be someday you will get her if you are lucky. I proposed a girl (friend of mine) and she rejected.
Thank you for taking the time to put together a quote for [Product/Service]. I appreciate the effort you and the team put into preparing this proposal. However, [give a clear reason], we have decided to decline the offer. I regret that we're unable to go forward with the proposal at this time.
I wanted to express my gratitude for your kind consideration of my proposal. Your willingness to carefully evaluate my ideas and consider my perspective has meant a great deal to me. I appreciate the respect and thoughtfulness you've shown, and I am grateful for the opportunity to have a productive dialogue.
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