Afternoon Tea Etiquette Dress Code - Top 10 Dos & Don'ts (2024)

The Style Guide to Afternoon Tea Dress Code

Hello Afternoon tea lovers!!

Are you heading to a fun afternoon tea or a high tea with your friends or having a garden tea party celebration?

I am a fellow afternoon tea lover. I love dressing up in bright florals, putting on a fun hat and snacking on finger sandwiches, scones, small pastries and fragrant tea.

Here you cansee some amazing Afternoon Tea Dress Ideas and tea etiquette do's and don'ts.

I have put together somepretty floral dresses perfect for high tea attire for women.‎Like me if you are planning to have California hotel Afternoon tea, these high tea dress code tips are very helpful.

When deciding what to wear for high tea or afternoon tea, have fun with your looks! Yes, they need to be appropriate for the occasion, but that doesn’t mean you can’t play with beautiful colors, fabrics or patterns to make your look unique to your personal taste.

AndI hope that you are able to confidently style your looks with the help ofmy fashion guide about what to wear to afternoon tea. So when you pick your outfit for taking tea, be sure to refer back tomy afternoon tea guide with ever-changing outfit ideas for your teatime adventures!I’m sure you’re excited about it and even more excited about getting to put on a fancy frock and strut your way into the tea room.

What is a proper afternoon tea?

Proper Afternoon Tea Courses

Traditional afternoon tea is served in three courses on a tiered stand along with a pot of tea. Tea sandwiches are eaten first, then scones with clotted cream and jam, and then finally, the sweets.Sandwiches are usually made crustless to make it easier to eat and to give it a more delicate look.

What do ladies wear for afternoon tea?

Afternoon Tea Dress

While you can get away with a smart top and jeans, if you don't want to dress up, many ladies choose to take the opportunity to don a pretty frock. All you need is a light and flowy dress, with a matching bag and either a pair of sandals or wedges.

Do 1. - Finding a Fashionable Dress

Dresses are a wonderful choice for high tea as these styles are comfortable and fashionable. When choosing the right dress, look for a pattern that is flattering and eye-catching but stay away from anything that looks too busy. Color will also be key here, sochoose shadesthat flatter your skin tone.

In today’s featured post, we address tea time attire. Specifically, we focus on what to wear for afternoon tea and give some tips and tricks to style a look perfectly appropriate for taking tea with the Queen, herself.

What to Wear for Afternoon Tea

Most venues havearelaxed 'smart casual'dresscode these days, so there is no need for men towear ajacket and tie (unless otherwise specified) - trousers or smart jeans, collared shirt and clean/un-scuffed shoes are acceptable. No sportswear or trainers (sneakers).

Afternoon Tea Dress Code

Whatexactlyis “Smart Casual?”

If you are planning to take your afternoon tea at a traditional tea locale, you will probably encounter a dress code. Generally, the attire requested for guests to adhere to for afternoon tea is “smart casual,” which falls somewhere between business casual and casual. This will usually mean no trainers, t-shirts, shorts or sportswear. And gentlemen will typically be asked to wear a collared shirt. However, theygenerallydo not require men to wear a jacket and tie. But check your intended location ahead of time to be sure of this.

For women, a “smart casual” outfit would be something akin to that which you would wear to a garden party. For example, atea-length dress(which unsurprisingly received its name from the garb women wore when taking tea) with a flared hem in a floral print styled with simplekitten heelswould be a classic look for attending a traditional afternoon tea.Long skirtsandmaxi dressesoffer a more modern take on afternoon tea, but are still chic and stylish. A maxi skirt like this ruffledversionwith jacquarddetails (which is SO in right now, btw) paired with a chicblazeror lovely fittedsweateris another appropriate ensemble for taking tea.

Do 2. - Flattering Tea Length Formals

Alternative Styles for Afternoon Tea

And though the aforementioned styles work well for afternoon tea, you don’t have to wear a dress or skirt to be “smart casual.”Dress pantsorstylish slackscan provide another stylish option to wear to your afternoon tea. Just make sure they are tailored well, fit properly and are suited for the season. Then pair your dress pants with a boldblazerandballet flatsorstylish heelsto create a look that is perfect for afternoon tea.

Tea Length Formal Dresses

Menswear for Afternoon Tea

Additionally, for men who plan to attend afternoon tea, a trendy, yet dapper, optioncan be created with simple black orgraytrousers, awhite collared shirt, acardigan sweaterand classicbroguesto finish the look.

Don't - WhatNotto Wear for Afternoon Tea

Finally, it is important to keep in mind the no-no’s for afternoon tea dressing – skin-tight, see-through, too low-cut or too short. Just remember to keep the look classic and chic and you will be just fine!

Now that we have elaborated on tea time dress code, please see the fabulous outfits below intended for afternoon tea.

Style Guide: What to Wear for Afternoon Tea

AFTERNOON TEA OUTFITS FOR WOMEN

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AFTERNOON TEA OUTFIT WITH A TEA-LENGTH DRESS

TEA PARTY OUTFIT WITH A FLARED SKIRT

TEA PARTY OUTFIT WITH DRESS PANTS

Tea Dress

As the name suggests, atea dress(also known as atea gown) is super suitable for high tea thanks to its hemline that falls above the ankle and below the knee. Whether it's short or long-sleeved, team it with an endearing quilted cross-body bag for fashionable elegance.

High Neckline and Flared Hem

With respect to the style, make sure that the bodice of the dress is high enough to be appropriate, but low and relaxed enough to look casual. A flared hem is also cute and comfortable instead of figure-hugging designs.

Long Maxi Dress

Long, floatymaxi dressescover you up for the occasion while making sure that you look effortlessly chic. If you have a strapless summer maxi dress that looks lovely, is a great shade and fits just right, but you're concerned about going without sleeves or straps, you could always pair the dress with a matching cardigan.

Rocking a Sweater Set

Asweater setis always a good idea for high tea because it can be paired with a skirt or pants but still looks pretty and feminine. Additionally, the sweater will help to keep you warm if the tea is being served in an air-conditioned room.

Consider Color

Make sure that your sweater set matches; don't just pair a tank top with a pretty cardigan. Stick to a color that is flattering on you and suitable for the occasion. Some good choices are:

Teal
Green
Berry
Soft rose
Violet

Shades of black and white are fine, but these colors may look a bit stark.

Embracing Feminine Skirts

Skirts pair nicely with sweater sets, embellished tank tops, and printed blouses. The general rule is to make sure that your skirtsits at the kneeor below the knee for it to be appropriate.

Pencil Skirt

Tailored pencil skirts match the occasion quite well as they're typicallyconsidered formal. However, if your skirt is very form fitting, be sure to sit in it prior to taking tea. You don't want to have to ask your friends or family members to help you up!

Flared Hem

A safe and practical option is a standout printed skirt with a flared hem, which you can then dress up with a black shirt, blouse, or cami to make a serious style statement.

Flowing Maxi Skirt

If you prefer the girlier aesthetic, opt for a long, free-flowing maxi skirt with romantic ruffles or a sassy slit. Choose between a muted, plain version that you can dress up with a bright blouse or a patterned number that you can pair withneutralsfor a classic, refined look.

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