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Starla West
Executive Coach | Business Leadership Expert | Confidence Coach | Keynote Speaker
Published Aug 9, 2014
A colleague asked how I felt about bare shoulders in a professional work environment. Here are the thoughts I shared with him:
(Prior to forming an opinion, make sure you read this blog post in its entirety.)
In a professional environment where the dress code is Smart Casual, Business Casual, or Business Professional, bare shoulders are a potential liability for two reasons:
- Bare shoulders fall into the same category as excessive cleavage, exposed midriff, bare legs and feet – all of which have the potential to create distractions for colleagues and clients. If others can't stop looking at our sexy shoulders or the excessive amount skin hanging from our upper arms, they certainly aren't paying full attention to what we are saying and the business we are trying to conduct.
- Here in the United States and in many other cultures, the exposure of skin is a tool we use to attract others – romantically and sexually. The more skin we expose in the workplace, the more opportunity there is for it to be misinterpreted by others as a mating call.
When getting dressed, I always ask, "Will the additional exposure of skin today work against me?" There are times when the answer is YES, and there are times when the answer is NO. If in any way I suspect my bare shoulders or legs will serve as a distraction for others and therefore make it more difficult for me to accomplish whatever I am trying to accomplish, I will simply cover them up and save my bare shoulder or leg-look for another time.
However, there ARE times when employees within a professional environment engage in activities like a company picnic, outdoor charity event, leadership retreat, etc. This is when a Casual Dress Code that allows for tank tops and spaghetti straps might be appropriate. It is always best to contact the event organizer for the preferred dress code so that we don't show up too casually dressed and create an awkward environment for everyone involved, including ourselves.
The above said, it is important to note there ARE fashion-forward industries where bare shoulders are perfectly acceptable - art, film, photography, advertising, fashion, merchandising, entertainment, event planning, etc.
Individuals who work in these industries may have an authentic personal brand that allows them to OWN a sexy and trendy bare shoulder-look. My advice here is just don't put it out there willy nilly. Instead, make the bare shoulder-look intentional and OWN it.
Lastly, if you work in an extremely hot and humid climate, it is at your employer's discretion as to whether or not it will allow bare shoulders in the workplace. In some cases, the bare shoulder-look in these climates is much more common and acceptable than in climates where the heat and humidity are unbearable for only a short period of time throughout the year.
This brings me to my final thought - especially for those individuals who feel they should be able to dress however they want...
Our choice of clothing is a physical expression of our authentic inner self that delivers rapid-fire messages about who we are on the inside. The colors we choose, the detail and construction of the clothing and our fabric selection all come together to tell a story about who we are on the inside. If we want to work for an employer who supports our preferred style of physical expression, it is always best to choose a career and work environment that are compatible/in-sync with our authentic inner self.
- Professionals who gravitate to a TRADITIONAL style of dress often find themselves working in such professions like accounting, banking, finance, government, insurance, law, real estate, etc. and naturally gravitate to a business professional dress code.
(BOSS HUGO BOSS)
- Professionals who gravitate to a SPORTY style of dress often find themselves working in such professions like construction, engineering, graphic/web design, information technology, sports-related work, outdoor-related work, etc. Here's an example of how a female with a sporty style can incorporate her more relaxed look into a business professional dress code.
(Ann Taylor)
- Professionals who gravitate to an ELEGANT style of dress often find themselves working in such professions like corporate law, dignitary work, executive business, international business, public speaking, special event planning, etc. These individuals don't have much difficulty dressing appropriately within a business professional dress code.
(St. John)
- Professionals who gravitate to a CREATIVE style of dress often find themselves working in such professions like acting, beauty (hair & makeup), design, entertainment, journalism, modeling, night club work, etc. where their creative spirit and talents are celebrated. Here's how a creative can dress appropriately within a business professional dress code, yet maintain her unique, innovative and imaginative appearance.
(Agnès B)
- Professionals who gravitate to a ROMANTIC style of dress often find themselves working in such professions like counseling, health care, education, hospitality, ministry, social work, etc. Here's an example of how a romantic can stay true to her style and still "fit in" within a business professional dress code.
(Kay Unger)
- Professionals who gravitate to a DRAMATIC style of dress often find themselves working in such professions like cosmetology, entertainment, high fashion, interior design, marketing/advertising, public speaking, etc. Here's how a dramatic can incorporate her strong, powerful, sophisticated and bold look into a business professional dress code.
(Zac Posen)
- Professionals who gravitate to an ALLURING style of dress often find themselves working in such professions like advertising, architecture, fashion design/retail, music industry, theatre, etc. These industries allow them to wear more "daring" clothes that create feelings of excitement and electricity. Below is an example of how an alluring individual can maintain her magnetic and sensual look when dressing for a business professional dress code. (Someone with an alluring style is likely to replace the slacks below with a pencil skirt - either in black or in the same print as the camisole.)
(Dolce & Gabbana)
At the end of the day, my advice boils down to simply this...be aware of the emotional response your appearance elicits from others. Savvy and sophisticated business professionals proactively manage their appearance so they always elicit a positive emotional response that works FOR them – not against them – in the workplace.
What thoughts and/or questions do you have? I would love to hear them!
Starla
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Exactly!
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My main question is what is the difference between bare-shoulder and sleeveless. I have a number of dresses that are sleeveless but don't show my shoulders at all. Should I consider this different? I am talking about a dress with more than 6 inches of "strap".
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I would suggest that if one doubts their behavior (e.g. actions, speach, dress, etc.) then it is probably improper behavior. If you're ever worried that you'd be embarrased by your behavior or that you'd get in trouble for it, it's best to not do it.
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A nice sleeveless dress or top can look professional and smart. More so with trim, well toned arms. A tank top or something on that order will always be inappropriate. Flabby arms will never look good. I don't equate a well made sleeveless top/dress to showing excessive cleavage.
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Bare shoulders vs. sleeveless. I will opt for sleeveless on hot days until it is no longer appropriate for my body type. Bare shoulders do not belong in the workplace at any age, and neither does a cami-type top with no jacket. I guess I'm just "old school." The younger generations have a much different opinion of appropriate business-wear.
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Great article Starla!
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My wife would probably say these outfits are completely different - but they all look pretty much the same to me. I try to avoid the question altogether by having everyone at the office wear scrubs - but then there is always some idiot that has to cut off the sleeves, roll up the pants, etc.
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This is a great article. I love how you've put examples of different outfits in; this stops the article coming across as "preachy" (as so many on LinkedIn are), and turns it into a really well thought-out piece.I have been lucky enough to work in environments for almost all my adult life where we can dress how we want (within reason!) - that's the advantage of working in small businesses. In my early- to mid twenties-, I'd have bare shoulders, short skirts, sky-high heels and far too much cleavage (not all at once!), though no one seemed to mind. I'm almost thirty now, and suddenly a business fashion conscience has kicked in. Perhaps it's my age, but I think I want to be taken more seriously now. The heels still come out to play occasionally, but my dresses are knee length and my chest is far more covered. In short, there's not so much skin on show normally. I think I'll do better in life because of it. My personal style has also changed, which probably helps.Also, I've totally used your article as business fashion inspiration ;-) Great job, Starla!
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I would like to have some friends from any part of the world. through this web. Pl help
Catherine Middleton FAIOP, HLM
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I agree with everything stated by Starla. Having worked in the field of administration for a very long time, I have seen the breakdown of the mode of dress to the point that 'casual 'is to my mind becoming almost slovern. Even the basic 'brushing of hair' appears to be a thing of the past, as hair is 'whipped' up with a clip or elastic band. I suggest that this overall image would not instill confidence with their customers / stakeholders. It doesn't take much to present appropriately leaving the 'grunge' image for after hours where it is more acceptable.We need to dress for work, not for ourselves. Whilst at work we are representing the company and dressing in accordance with the business environment we find ourselves is I would suggest appropriate.
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