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Wiseflower · 06/07/2022 14:59

Silly question but sure a lot of people ask - As mother of bride and wedding guests, is it okay to leave hat-fascinator on while seated down for dinner/wedding breakfast/lunch? Or should we take it off as if we were taking a jacket off? It is not a huge hat but fasciantor which is part of the dress outfit.

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DockOTheBay · 06/07/2022 15:03

Yes you can leave it on. Fascinators are often pinned in so not easily removed.

Yodaisawally · 06/07/2022 17:19

Leave it on as long as it's not liking anyone next to you in the eye

superram · 06/07/2022 17:21

Fascinator, yes, hat, no. Rude to wear a hat indoors (though fine for photos if weather outside is crap).

RuthW · 06/07/2022 17:21

Hat or fascinator you leave them on all day.

DramaAlpaca · 06/07/2022 17:23

Traditionally you don't remove your hat/fascinator until the mother of the bride does... but these days I don't think it matters a bit.

So if you are the mother of the bride and take yours off, don't be surprised to see lots of your guests doing the same Can you leave fascinator hat during lunch/dinner? | Mumsnet (1)

meditrina · 06/07/2022 17:25

Yes, fine for both

It's gentlemen who are required to remove headgear indoors. Ladies can keep hats on, and indeed pre-1960s nearly always did (unless making themselves at home in a metaphorical sort of way)

But yes, you need to consider the impact on others if it is a wide-brimmed hat or it has sticky out bits (it's why co*cktail hats are small - they are designed to be worn indoors)

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Wiseflower · 08/07/2022 09:11

meditrina · 06/07/2022 17:25

Yes, fine for both

It's gentlemen who are required to remove headgear indoors. Ladies can keep hats on, and indeed pre-1960s nearly always did (unless making themselves at home in a metaphorical sort of way)

But yes, you need to consider the impact on others if it is a wide-brimmed hat or it has sticky out bits (it's why co*cktail hats are small - they are designed to be worn indoors)

Thank you all! "co*cktail hat" is more appropriate as the fascinators are beautiful hair decorations rather than a proper hat. Will definately keep it on, especially the price I paid! 😄.

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EvelynBeatrice · 08/07/2022 21:13

Etiquette says no female guest removes her headwear before the mother of the bride does so.
Brings back a lovely memory of a wedding years ago in a city chambers with numerous window sills and embrasures containing busts and sculpture. By the end of the meal, every bust/statue sported at least one hat. Can you leave fascinator hat during lunch/dinner? | Mumsnet (2)

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Can you leave fascinator hat during lunch/dinner? | Mumsnet? ›

Hat or fascinator you leave them on all day. Traditionally you don't remove your hat/fascinator until the mother of the bride does... but these days I don't think it matters a bit. Thank you all! "co*cktail hat" is more appropriate as the fascinators are beautiful hair decorations rather than a proper hat.

What is the rule for fascinator? ›

Fascinators are usually worn on the right side of the head. This is a historical tradition originating from when women always stood on the right side of a man as his sword was always carried on the left. Therefore, women's hats tilted to the to the right so that it wouldn't shield her face from him.

Can you wear a fascinator at dinner? ›

Sure, why not! If your fascinator is lightweight and comfortable to wear there is nothing to stop you wearing all day and long into the night.

Do you keep a fascinator on all day at a wedding? ›

Forget about worrying about where to put your hat at the wedding breakfast. Fascinators can be worn for the whole day.

Should fascinator match dress or shoes? ›

If the wedding you're attending is a very formal occasion, a hat or fascinator is recommended and it should ideally match the colour of your dress or two-piece - whether it's the same shade or a complementary hue.

When to wear a fascinator hat? ›

A fascinator is a high-society headpiece that is often worn by women at weddings and other events in the U.K. It's an alternative to a hat and usually consists of a large decorative design attached to a band or clip.

Are fascinators still in fashion for weddings in 2024? ›

Sophisticated co-ords or trouser suits, colour-matched with shoes and fascinators to create harmonious head-to-toe looks, will ensure you feel your very best on this momentous occasion.

Should you see the headband on a fascinator? ›

It is often easy to hide the headband with your hair if you wish, although most are covered with material which matches the fascinator and can look lovely on show as well. The bride can most definitely wear headband fascinators too!

Can you wear a fascinator to afternoon tea? ›

For many women dressing up in elegant outfits is much of the fun of afternoon tea. It's the perfect excuse to wear hats, fascinators, and classic jewelry!

What is the best hairstyle with a fascinator? ›

"A simple low sleek bun can be a great option that suits any headwear, particularly under a large hat, or detailed fascinator. Long hair can also be tied into a simple ponytail which looks great under a wide-brimmed or boater hat."

Should I wear my hair up or down with a fascinator? ›

You can, of course, wear your hair down - it really depends on the wedding and look you're trying to achieve. If the dress code for the wedding is formal, then you might want to follow suit with your hairstyle and go for an up-do.

What to wear instead of a fascinator? ›

I would just use some pretty pins to secure/decorate your updo. Possibly a narrow jewelled headband (the wide ones are so ubiquitous now and I like to go against the grain!). Or maybe do away with all of that and wear some fabulous earrings? Definitely no to a fascinator.

Should your fascinator be the same color as your dress? ›

Firstly, you could match the fascinator to the colour of your dress, a popular choice which looks sleek and classic. Secondly, you could match your fascinator to accessories you will be wearing such as your shoes or bag. This could be done to create a beautiful pop of colour and can really tie an outfit together.

Can any guest wear a fascinator? ›

Fascinators are typically considered appropriate for formal and semi-formal events, such as: Weddings: Fascinators are a popular choice for guests at weddings, especially for women who want to dress up but don't want to wear a traditional hat.

What counts as a fascinator? ›

A fascinator is a formal headpiece, a style of millinery. Since the 1990s, the term has referred to a type of formal headwear worn as an alternative to the hat; it is usually a large decorative design attached to a band or clip.

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