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Wiseflower · 06/07/2022 14:59
Silly question but sure a lot of people ask - As mother of bride and wedding guests, is it okay to leave hat-fascinator on while seated down for dinner/wedding breakfast/lunch? Or should we take it off as if we were taking a jacket off? It is not a huge hat but fasciantor which is part of the dress outfit.
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DockOTheBay · 06/07/2022 15:03
Yes you can leave it on. Fascinators are often pinned in so not easily removed.
Yodaisawally · 06/07/2022 17:19
Leave it on as long as it's not liking anyone next to you in the eye
superram · 06/07/2022 17:21
Fascinator, yes, hat, no. Rude to wear a hat indoors (though fine for photos if weather outside is crap).
DramaAlpaca · 06/07/2022 17:23
Traditionally you don't remove your hat/fascinator until the mother of the bride does... but these days I don't think it matters a bit.
So if you are the mother of the bride and take yours off, don't be surprised to see lots of your guests doing the same
meditrina · 06/07/2022 17:25
Yes, fine for both
It's gentlemen who are required to remove headgear indoors. Ladies can keep hats on, and indeed pre-1960s nearly always did (unless making themselves at home in a metaphorical sort of way)
But yes, you need to consider the impact on others if it is a wide-brimmed hat or it has sticky out bits (it's why co*cktail hats are small - they are designed to be worn indoors)
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Wiseflower · 08/07/2022 09:11
meditrina · 06/07/2022 17:25
Yes, fine for both
It's gentlemen who are required to remove headgear indoors. Ladies can keep hats on, and indeed pre-1960s nearly always did (unless making themselves at home in a metaphorical sort of way)
But yes, you need to consider the impact on others if it is a wide-brimmed hat or it has sticky out bits (it's why co*cktail hats are small - they are designed to be worn indoors)
Thank you all! "co*cktail hat" is more appropriate as the fascinators are beautiful hair decorations rather than a proper hat. Will definately keep it on, especially the price I paid! 😄.
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EvelynBeatrice · 08/07/2022 21:13
Etiquette says no female guest removes her headwear before the mother of the bride does so.
Brings back a lovely memory of a wedding years ago in a city chambers with numerous window sills and embrasures containing busts and sculpture. By the end of the meal, every bust/statue sported at least one hat.
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