Decoding the Dress Code: What Should I Wear to a co*cktail Event? — Nicole O'Neil (2024)

co*cktail

Traditionally, co*cktail attire restricted women to dresses that were knee length, however, these days any length shorter than an evening gown may be considered appropriate for a co*cktail event.

For men, a co*cktail event is a time for suits – preferably dark (think navy or charcoal) in colour and accompanied with a white or muted colour shirt. Feel free to add a tie or pocket square if you like too.

A co*cktail dress code is a little more flexible than other dress codes and it’s generally accepted that, if the event is in the morning or afternoon, guests can be a little freer with colours and patterns – but if it’s an evening event, it’s all about dark colours and muted tones.

If you want to wear a dress:

A co*cktail dress code doesn't mean you have to wear a dress - but it is an easy option if you're stuck for ideas. You want to steer clear of daytime fabrics like cotton - but don't go as far as wearing a ballgown - find the middle ground.

A co*cktail dress falls from just above the knee to just below the knee. You want to wear something that is formal - without looking like you're going to a ball - and not something that's too short that you'd feel embarrassed wearing in front of your boss or grandmother.

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If you want to wear a skirt:

Opt for a sleek pencil skirt or tailored A-line skirt - paired with a nice blouse.

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If you want to accessorise:

Always go for a clutch - or a clutch sized bag. A clutch or mini shoulder bag is always more elegant and refined.

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If you want to wear pants:

Forget the jeans! Instead opt for tailored pants.

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