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A father has sparked a debate after admitting that he is holding his son's college fund hostage until he creates a business plan. The father, who has almost $400k saved for his son's education, said that he supports his son's decision to start a business but wants him to take some Business Management, accounting, and law classes at a nearby community college. The father believes that this will help his son succeed in his entrepreneurial endeavors. However, his son has accused him of holding his college fund hostage and not allowing him to make his own decisions. The post has received over 22k upvotes and sparked a heated debate on whether the father is being controlling or just looking out for his son's best interests. What do you think? AITA?
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Father holds son's $400k college fund hostage for business plan π°π¨βπ
A father is facing backlash for holding his son's college fund hostage until he comes up with a business plan. His son has expressed that he does not want to go to college, but instead wants to use the $400k college fund to start his own business. The father has insisted that his son take Business Management, accounting and law classes in the nearby community college, which he would pay for out of pocket, before giving him the money. The father believes that he is doing his best to ensure his son's business succeeds, but his son has called him and his wife AHs (assholes) for holding his college fund hostage to make him do what they want. What do you think? Share your thoughts and reactions in the comments below.
NTA father is trying to help his son make a wise decision π
MaraTheBard | MaraTheBard
NTA. Son acting entitled. Dad generously set reasonable guidelines.
Impressive_Cat_530 | Impressive_Cat_530
Investing in son's business plan with college funds is responsible πΌπ°
TwoCentsPsychologist | TwoCentsPsychologist
Son wants to start a business, father offers class, holds fund.
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Father withholds college fund until son shows responsible business plan ππ°
Katana1369 | Katana1369
Building a successful business requires a willingness to do what's necessary πͺ
ClaymoreClair | ClaymoreClair
Protecting college fund = looking out for son's best interest π
ManofLegacy | ManofLegacy
NTA. Giving an 18-year-old with no experience and no plan nearly half a million dollars in seed money is absurd. The son seems more interested in showing off than building a successful business. π€
saurellia | saurellia
NTA. Father requires business plan for son's college fund, son now owns business. π
bigtoeleftfoot | bigtoeleftfoot
Investing in a business without a plan? NTA says no way π ββοΈ
Reasonable_Minute_42 | Reasonable_Minute_42
Father defends decision to hold son's college fund for business plan π°
teresajs | teresajs
Encouraging response to son's business plan. π
RainierCherree | RainierCherree
College fund held hostage for business plan, NTA!
ethan_winfield | ethan_winfield
Father holds college fund hostage for business plan, not the a-hole.
joeyo1423 | joeyo1423
College fund held hostage for business plan sparks tax concerns π°
LouisV25 | LouisV25
Protecting your hard-earned money from your kid's potential failure π
F-Penn | F-Penn
Encouraging education before investment π°π¨βπ
Unnecessary_Timeline | Unnecessary_Timeline
Encouraging advice for budding entrepreneur ππ¨βπΌ
Potential_Dentist_90 | Potential_Dentist_90
Father may have a point, but son needs a plan π°π€
GlitteringPaint899 | GlitteringPaint899
Father uses college fund for business, commenters approve π€
Tradingfool0001 | Tradingfool0001
Commenter dismisses entitled behavior with a rolling eyes emoji.
Melodic_Caregiver | Melodic_Caregiver
Supportive parent helps son start a business, gets criticized π€·ββοΈ
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Demanding a business plan for college fund: reasonable or excessive? π°π€
Ande3 | Ande3
Savage! π Son puts his dad's business plan in its grave. π
ViscVal | ViscVal
Putting safeguards on son's college fund is a smart move π
External-Judgment-77 | External-Judgment-77
Reasonable request? Not the a**hole ππΌ
Substantial_Bench102 | Substantial_Bench102
Parents refuse to help with college debt, OP deserves reparations.
RealWanheda | RealWanheda
NTA, but consider setting up a trust fund for him π°
OneTwoWee000 | OneTwoWee000
Father demands business plan for son's college fund. NTA.
Megmca | Megmca
College fund held hostage by father, but is he in the wrong? NTA verdict.
Highrisegirl4639 | Highrisegirl4639
Investing in son's future with business plan, NTA says commenter
bexwithchex | bexwithchex
Secure your legacy with a simple update π¨βπ¦π°
Few-Cap-8538 | Few-Cap-8538
Supportive reply suggests asking for solid business plan and cost analysis πΌ
Affectionate_Ice_658 | Affectionate_Ice_658
Father defends holding son's college fund for business plan π°
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Father holds son's college fund hostage for business plan - NTA ππΌ
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Son wants to start a business with college fund, but needs plan π€
OddAsk9838 | OddAsk9838
Collaboration between experience and education leads to success π
tnebteg456 | tnebteg456
College fund held hostage for business plan? NTA approves.
oieusouobixo | oieusouobixo
Take control of your future π°π¨βππΌ
Oceanside9987 | Oceanside9987
Investing in education vs. business: Who gets the funds? π°
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Father puts son's college fund at risk for cash.
oldcreaker | oldcreaker
Father with entitled son holds college fund hostage. NTA.
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Encouraging responsibility or hindering independence? π€
Eab11 | Eab11
Parenting balance: How much is too much or too little?
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Father pushes son towards family business, but at what cost? π°
Low_Requirement7334 | Low_Requirement7334
Parental tough love reigns! π NTA prioritizing son's future.
Brilliant_Source_0 | Brilliant_Source_0
Father withholds son's college fund for not pursuing education. NTA.
WhoKnewHomesteading | WhoKnewHomesteading
Investing in a business without a plan? NTA says treat it like an investor π€
jaythepenguin48 | jaythepenguin48
Father holds son's college fund, commenters doubt his motives. NTA
Top-Cartographer-639 | Top-Cartographer-639
Son's business plan: Steps 1 and 2 complete... π
SaintPatty317 | SaintPatty317
Father withholds college fund for business plan, NTA according to comment.
Informal-Ad-2942 | Informal-Ad-2942
Father withholds college fund for son's business plan, but OP is NTA for wanting him to fulfill requirements and gain necessary knowledge first π°πΌ
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Father's control over son's college fund causes controversy β οΈ
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Father withholds college fund, NTA says it's justified π€
MarcosMUI | MarcosMUI
Stand up for your money and goals π°π
Patsmom5 | Patsmom5
Generosity prevails as father teaches son valuable lesson. NTA π
thebreannashow | thebreannashow
Setting expectations for children's future: NTA approves π
Still-Platypus5297 | Still-Platypus5297
Teaching financial responsibility πΈ
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