Father Holds Son's College Fund Hostage for Business Plan (2024)

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New graduate's college fund held hostage by father's demands ⚠️ A father holding his son's college fund hostage? Parental guidance vs controlling your child's future πŸ€” Parents prioritize entrepreneurship over academics and passions πŸ€” Son declines college and trade school, father withholds college fund. Father demands son's entrepreneurship knowledge to fund business plan πŸ’‘ Parents demand business plan, son calls them AHs. 😠 Redditors judge father's actions in holding son's college fund OP surprised by overwhelming response to post, answers questions Son's college fund held hostage for business plan πŸ’°πŸ€ From abuse to success: inspiring story of perseverance πŸ™Œ Spoiled son's college fund held hostage for business plan πŸ’° User seeks advice on avoiding toxic parenting behavior. πŸ€” Father holds son's $400k college fund hostage for business plan πŸ’°πŸ‘¨β€πŸŽ“ NTA father is trying to help his son make a wise decision πŸ‘ NTA. Son acting entitled. Dad generously set reasonable guidelines. Investing in son's business plan with college funds is responsible πŸ’ΌπŸ’° Son wants to start a business, father offers class, holds fund. Father withholds college fund until son shows responsible business plan πŸŽ“πŸ’° Building a successful business requires a willingness to do what's necessary πŸ’ͺ Protecting college fund = looking out for son's best interest 😎 NTA. Giving an 18-year-old with no experience and no plan nearly half a million dollars in seed money is absurd. The son seems more interested in showing off than building a successful business. πŸ€‘ NTA. Father requires business plan for son's college fund, son now owns business. πŸ‘ Investing in a business without a plan? NTA says no way πŸ™…β€β™‚οΈ Father defends decision to hold son's college fund for business plan πŸ’° Son's lack of interest in skills is a red flag 🚩 Encouraging response to son's business plan. πŸ‘ College fund held hostage for business plan, NTA! Father holds college fund hostage for business plan, not the a-hole. College fund held hostage for business plan sparks tax concerns πŸ’° Protecting your hard-earned money from your kid's potential failure πŸ‘ Encouraging education before investment πŸ’°πŸ‘¨β€πŸŽ“ Parent criticized for holding college fund due to son's entitlement. NTA. Encouraging advice for budding entrepreneur πŸš€πŸ‘¨β€πŸ’Ό Father may have a point, but son needs a plan πŸ’°πŸ€” Father uses college fund for business, commenters approve 🀝 Support for father withholding college fund for bad business idea πŸ‘ Commenter dismisses entitled behavior with a rolling eyes emoji. Supportive parent helps son start a business, gets criticized πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ Demanding a business plan for college fund: reasonable or excessive? πŸ’°πŸ€” Savage! 😎 Son puts his dad's business plan in its grave. πŸ’€ Putting safeguards on son's college fund is a smart move πŸ‘ Reasonable request? Not the a**hole πŸ‘πŸΌ Parents refuse to help with college debt, OP deserves reparations. NTA, but consider setting up a trust fund for him πŸ’° Father demands business plan for son's college fund. NTA. College fund held hostage by father, but is he in the wrong? NTA verdict. Investing in son's future with business plan, NTA says commenter Secure your legacy with a simple update πŸ‘¨β€πŸ‘¦πŸ’° Supportive reply suggests asking for solid business plan and cost analysis πŸ’Ό Father defends holding son's college fund for business plan πŸ’° Father holds son's college fund hostage for business plan - NTA πŸŽ“πŸ’Ό Son wants to start a business with college fund, but needs plan πŸ€” Collaboration between experience and education leads to success πŸ‘ College fund held hostage for business plan? NTA approves. Take control of your future πŸ’°πŸ‘¨β€πŸŽ“πŸ’Ό Investing in education vs. business: Who gets the funds? πŸ’° Father puts son's college fund at risk for cash. Father with entitled son holds college fund hostage. NTA. Encouraging responsibility or hindering independence? πŸ€” Parenting balance: How much is too much or too little? Father pushes son towards family business, but at what cost? πŸ’° Parental tough love reigns! πŸ™Œ NTA prioritizing son's future. Father withholds son's college fund for not pursuing education. NTA. Investing in a business without a plan? NTA says treat it like an investor πŸ€” Father holds son's college fund, commenters doubt his motives. NTA Son's business plan: Steps 1 and 2 complete... πŸ˜‚ Father withholds college fund for business plan, NTA according to comment. Father withholds college fund for son's business plan, but OP is NTA for wanting him to fulfill requirements and gain necessary knowledge first πŸ’°πŸ’Ό Father's control over son's college fund causes controversy ⚠️ Father withholds college fund, NTA says it's justified πŸ€” Stand up for your money and goals πŸ’°πŸ‘Š Generosity prevails as father teaches son valuable lesson. NTA πŸ‘ Setting expectations for children's future: NTA approves πŸ‘ Teaching financial responsibility πŸ’Έ
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A father has sparked a debate after admitting that he is holding his son's college fund hostage until he creates a business plan. The father, who has almost $400k saved for his son's education, said that he supports his son's decision to start a business but wants him to take some Business Management, accounting, and law classes at a nearby community college. The father believes that this will help his son succeed in his entrepreneurial endeavors. However, his son has accused him of holding his college fund hostage and not allowing him to make his own decisions. The post has received over 22k upvotes and sparked a heated debate on whether the father is being controlling or just looking out for his son's best interests. What do you think? AITA?

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Parents prioritize entrepreneurship over academics and passions πŸ€”

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Son declines college and trade school, father withholds college fund.

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Father demands son's entrepreneurship knowledge to fund business plan πŸ’‘

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Parents demand business plan, son calls them AHs. 😠

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Redditors judge father's actions in holding son's college fund

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OP surprised by overwhelming response to post, answers questions

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Son's college fund held hostage for business plan πŸ’°πŸ€

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From abuse to success: inspiring story of perseverance πŸ™Œ

Father Holds Son's College Fund Hostage for Business Plan (20)

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Spoiled son's college fund held hostage for business plan πŸ’°

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Father holds son's $400k college fund hostage for business plan πŸ’°πŸ‘¨β€πŸŽ“

A father is facing backlash for holding his son's college fund hostage until he comes up with a business plan. His son has expressed that he does not want to go to college, but instead wants to use the $400k college fund to start his own business. The father has insisted that his son take Business Management, accounting and law classes in the nearby community college, which he would pay for out of pocket, before giving him the money. The father believes that he is doing his best to ensure his son's business succeeds, but his son has called him and his wife AHs (assholes) for holding his college fund hostage to make him do what they want. What do you think? Share your thoughts and reactions in the comments below.

NTA father is trying to help his son make a wise decision πŸ‘

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MaraTheBard | MaraTheBard

NTA. Son acting entitled. Dad generously set reasonable guidelines.

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Investing in son's business plan with college funds is responsible πŸ’ΌπŸ’°

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TwoCentsPsychologist | TwoCentsPsychologist

Son wants to start a business, father offers class, holds fund.

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Father withholds college fund until son shows responsible business plan πŸŽ“πŸ’°

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Katana1369 | Katana1369

Building a successful business requires a willingness to do what's necessary πŸ’ͺ

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ClaymoreClair | ClaymoreClair

Protecting college fund = looking out for son's best interest 😎

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ManofLegacy | ManofLegacy

NTA. Giving an 18-year-old with no experience and no plan nearly half a million dollars in seed money is absurd. The son seems more interested in showing off than building a successful business. πŸ€‘

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saurellia | saurellia

NTA. Father requires business plan for son's college fund, son now owns business. πŸ‘

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Investing in a business without a plan? NTA says no way πŸ™…β€β™‚οΈ

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Reasonable_Minute_42 | Reasonable_Minute_42

Father defends decision to hold son's college fund for business plan πŸ’°

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Son's lack of interest in skills is a red flag 🚩

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Encouraging response to son's business plan. πŸ‘

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RainierCherree | RainierCherree

College fund held hostage for business plan, NTA!

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ethan_winfield | ethan_winfield

Father holds college fund hostage for business plan, not the a-hole.

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College fund held hostage for business plan sparks tax concerns πŸ’°

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LouisV25 | LouisV25

Protecting your hard-earned money from your kid's potential failure πŸ‘

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F-Penn | F-Penn

Encouraging education before investment πŸ’°πŸ‘¨β€πŸŽ“

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Unnecessary_Timeline | Unnecessary_Timeline

Parent criticized for holding college fund due to son's entitlement. NTA.

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MrChez85 | MrChez85

Encouraging advice for budding entrepreneur πŸš€πŸ‘¨β€πŸ’Ό

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Father may have a point, but son needs a plan πŸ’°πŸ€”

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Father uses college fund for business, commenters approve 🀝

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Support for father withholding college fund for bad business idea πŸ‘

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Commenter dismisses entitled behavior with a rolling eyes emoji.

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Melodic_Caregiver | Melodic_Caregiver

Supportive parent helps son start a business, gets criticized πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ

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Demanding a business plan for college fund: reasonable or excessive? πŸ’°πŸ€”

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Ande3 | Ande3

Savage! 😎 Son puts his dad's business plan in its grave. πŸ’€

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ViscVal | ViscVal

Putting safeguards on son's college fund is a smart move πŸ‘

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External-Judgment-77 | External-Judgment-77

Reasonable request? Not the a**hole πŸ‘πŸΌ

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Substantial_Bench102 | Substantial_Bench102

Parents refuse to help with college debt, OP deserves reparations.

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RealWanheda | RealWanheda

NTA, but consider setting up a trust fund for him πŸ’°

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OneTwoWee000 | OneTwoWee000

Father demands business plan for son's college fund. NTA.

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College fund held hostage by father, but is he in the wrong? NTA verdict.

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Investing in son's future with business plan, NTA says commenter

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Secure your legacy with a simple update πŸ‘¨β€πŸ‘¦πŸ’°

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Supportive reply suggests asking for solid business plan and cost analysis πŸ’Ό

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Father defends holding son's college fund for business plan πŸ’°

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Father holds son's college fund hostage for business plan - NTA πŸŽ“πŸ’Ό

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Son wants to start a business with college fund, but needs plan πŸ€”

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OddAsk9838 | OddAsk9838

Collaboration between experience and education leads to success πŸ‘

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College fund held hostage for business plan? NTA approves.

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Take control of your future πŸ’°πŸ‘¨β€πŸŽ“πŸ’Ό

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Investing in education vs. business: Who gets the funds? πŸ’°

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Father puts son's college fund at risk for cash.

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oldcreaker | oldcreaker

Father with entitled son holds college fund hostage. NTA.

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Encouraging responsibility or hindering independence? πŸ€”

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Eab11 | Eab11

Parenting balance: How much is too much or too little?

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Father pushes son towards family business, but at what cost? πŸ’°

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Low_Requirement7334 | Low_Requirement7334

Parental tough love reigns! πŸ™Œ NTA prioritizing son's future.

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Brilliant_Source_0 | Brilliant_Source_0

Father withholds son's college fund for not pursuing education. NTA.

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WhoKnewHomesteading | WhoKnewHomesteading

Investing in a business without a plan? NTA says treat it like an investor πŸ€”

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Father holds son's college fund, commenters doubt his motives. NTA

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Son's business plan: Steps 1 and 2 complete... πŸ˜‚

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Father withholds college fund for business plan, NTA according to comment.

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Father withholds college fund for son's business plan, but OP is NTA for wanting him to fulfill requirements and gain necessary knowledge first πŸ’°πŸ’Ό

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JCWa50 | JCWa50

Father's control over son's college fund causes controversy ⚠️

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Father withholds college fund, NTA says it's justified πŸ€”

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MarcosMUI | MarcosMUI

Stand up for your money and goals πŸ’°πŸ‘Š

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Patsmom5 | Patsmom5

Generosity prevails as father teaches son valuable lesson. NTA πŸ‘

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Setting expectations for children's future: NTA approves πŸ‘

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Teaching financial responsibility πŸ’Έ

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