How to get a haircut you'll actually like, according to stylists (2024)

“A woman who cuts her hair is about to change her life,” said the fashion mogul Coco Chanel, who, for the record, donned a trendsetting sleek bob.

Dr. Tricia Wolanin, a clinical psychologist, is inclined to agree with the iconic French designer and business mogul.

“The timing of when [a woman] chooses to get a haircut is key,” she says. “Is it post-breakup to redefine a new you, and release excess burden and baggage? Is it a marking point for a new adventure such as graduation, new job or a notable birthday? Or is she getting this haircut as a metaphor to take time out to care for herself and move into her power?”

Though our motivations for getting a haircut vary (and sometimes, we’re just looking to tame the beast of tangles), we can all agree on one thing: we want a good haircut. Actually, no, we want a fantastic haircut — and for good reason.

“Haircuts are one of the first things people notice when you make a slight alteration,” says Wolanin. “When we take the time to make a shift, others notice. It may be a trim in our bangs, new color, or a whole new style — but our hair makes a statement.”

A great haircut can bear a hefty price tag — yet fall short of expectations.

And haircuts can be expensive.

Celebrity hairstylist Paul Labrecque says on average a great cut in a big city costs “about $150, and will last about six to seven weeks.” Edward Tricomi, stylist and co-owner of Warren Tricomi Salons puts the ballpark figure for a new do at “$130 up to $1,000. It depends on what you are requesting and where you go. I can make that cut last anywhere between three to four months.”

But we don’t always get what you pay for, do we? I don’t know anyone (male or female) who hasn’t suffered a terrible haircut.

What steps can clients take to ensure the best results?

Scour Yelp and other review platforms

If you’re looking for a new stylist, do as much sleuthing as you can on their professional work.

“Look up a hairstylist’s reviews online, talk to current and past clients, [and/or] visit a salon in person and ask a hairstylist about their experience and portfolio,” hairstylist Chad Seale says.

Many stylists have a presence on Instagram, so be sure to check out their work there, too.

Book a consultation first

One of the best tips I’ve learned over the years, when booking a hair appointment, is to secure that the cut comes with a consultation.

“A consultation should be included as part of the service, and doing one complimentary is the norm,” says Labrecque. “At my salons we generally allow 15 minutes with each client for this process.”

You can also book a consultation with just a blow dry, which Neven Radovic, lead stylist at Ian McCabe Studio, recommends.

“Your hair is a big deal and impacts you daily — you should be comfortable when you are spending your hard-earned money on it,” says Radovic. “I recommend booking an appointment for just a consultation and a blow dry. This way you can get to know the stylist and how they work before doing anything serious. And then if it is a good fit, book a second appointment for a cut/color.”

Be honest about how much time you spend on your hair everyday

Be as direct as you can with your stylist — not just about what you want to change (or keep) — but about your hair routine. If you often throw your hair up in a messy bun because you don’t have the time to deal with it, tell the stylist that so they can create a cut that’s easy to manage.

“Be honest with your stylist,” says Seale. “A good stylist will know the perfect hairstyle for your face, lifestyle and preferences; however, he or she should also be willing to listen to your concerns and work with you.”

You should also point out if you use or are open to using products everyday as some hairstyles are more high-maintenance (and costly) in this regard.

Get inspiration from TV, beauty mags, Pinterest and Instagram

Part of the job of a hairstylist is to know the current trends. If you’re out of the loop, they can fill you in, but if you have no idea what you want, it’s best to do a bit of homework to get some ideas. The stylists we consulted recommend checking out Pinterest, beauty magazines and fashion influencers on Instagram. Save a few pics on your phone to show the stylist what appeals to you.

“It’s always great to show your stylist a picture of something you’re trying to achieve so they have a good idea on how to move forward,” says Tricomi.

Hear out the stylist’s suggestions, but hold your ground

A stylist should have suggestions for what they think will look best on you based on your preferences and lifestyle. But don’t feel obligated to agree.

“If in the end you don’t want the style he or she recommends, they should willingly yield to your decision,” says Seale.

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Consider not only face shape, but body shape

No two faces are the same, but most faces fall into one of four categories: oval, long, square or round.

“Each one has different haircuts that look perfect for them,” says Tricomi. “Bangs or no bangs, blunt cuts, or long layers — it all depends on how you cut and structure someone’s new look. When you’re cutting, what is really important is body structure and facial features. A great stylist knows how to balance all of those compliments and give the client the look they're looking for.”

It’s good to have some idea of these factors before heading in (you can easily do this by following one of the many online guides for measuring both face and body shape).

“Pinterest can help the client look at face shapes and find cuts that are best,” says Tricomi.

How to get a haircut you'll actually like, according to stylists (2024)

FAQs

How do you get a haircut you actually like? ›

How to get the haircut you want, according to a top hairdresser
  1. Take the free consultation. ...
  2. 2.Do your research. ...
  3. 3.Be really honest. ...
  4. 4.Do take advice. ...
  5. Don't leave the salon if you're unhappy. ...
  6. Bring pictures of your own hair. ...
  7. 7.Be realistic. ...
  8. Stick with your hairdresser.
Feb 25, 2021

How to figure out what haircut looks best on you? ›

Compliment Your Features. As well as thinking about the best hairstyle for your face shape, there are many other features to consider. Things like your eye colour, height, neck length and build could all be complimented with the right hairstyle, so it's worth thinking about all of these things too.

How do I tell my stylist what haircut I want? ›

Use the Right Lingo

For example, say how many inches you'd like off, or if you want a hard or soft cut. If you want layers, don't just say you want short layers or long layers—let your hairstylist know you'd like short layers in one place and longer layers in another.

How do you explain how you want your hair cut? ›

Tip #1 Use Pictures
  1. Use a clear, bright picture where you can zoom in show the length on the top and sides to the barber. Avoid blurry, out of focus or dark pictures.
  2. Find a picture with a model that has the same hair texture as yours. ...
  3. Be Realistic.
Jan 1, 2021

How do I ask for a better haircut? ›

How to Get the Perfect Haircut: Ask the Right Questions
  1. Specify Your Hairstyle. To help your barber make you look amazing, it's best to provide them with a general description of the style you want when you first sit down in the chair.
  2. Specify Desired Haircut Length. ...
  3. Describe Taper and Neckline. ...
  4. Specify Texture.
Jul 1, 2021

What is number 1 haircut? ›

If you ask your barber for a number one cut, you are asking them to cut your hair so it is an eighth of an inch long. If you ask for a number eight cut, the hair left on your head will be one inch.

What haircut will suit me? ›

Face Shape
  • Oval: Blunt.
  • Round: Side swept.
  • Square: Wispy fringe.
  • Diamond: Side-swept fringe.
  • Rectangle: Side-swept with feathered fringe.
  • Heart: Blunt and narrow.
Jul 31, 2023

What haircut looks good on anyone? ›

16 Trendy Haircuts Stylists Say Are Easy to Maintain and Look Good on Everyone
  • Layered Waves With Volume. "Wavy hair screams body. ...
  • Modern Bob. (Image credit: @januaryjones) ...
  • Long, Carved-Out Layers. ...
  • Shapely Coils. ...
  • Off-the-Shoulder Curly Bob. ...
  • Layered Piecey Afro. ...
  • Straight, Blunt Bob With Bangs. ...
  • Mid-Length Shag.
Mar 3, 2023

What to say when getting a haircut? ›

Examples of What to Ask For a Haircut
  1. For a short, classic style: “I would like a short back and sides with a little length on top, tapered at the back and sides with a #2 clipper guard. ...
  2. For a modern look: “I want an undercut with a fade on the sides. ...
  3. For medium-length hair: “I'd like a layered cut with scissors only.

How to ask a hairdresser for a butterfly haircut? ›

Since the goal is to remove weight, not length, ask your stylist for face-framing layers with wispy ends that begin at the chin and longer layers throughout the rest of your hair to achieve a long butterfly haircut.

What to say to a hair stylist? ›

The Best Compliments for Your Hairstylist
  • “I love my new hairstyle!” – This is one of the most common compliments and for a good reason. ...
  • “You have a great eye for color!” – If your hairstylist has colored your hair, it's important to let them know that you love the new color.

What is the number 2 haircut? ›

The numbers 1, 2, and 3 refer to the different length guards on hair clippers. The lower the number, the shorter the haircut will be. Number 1 is approximately 1/8 inch, number 2 is 1/4 inch, and number 3 is 3/8 inch.

How to figure out what haircut to get? ›

Choosing a haircut depends on various factors: face shape, hair type, lifestyle, and personal style. Consider your face shape for a flattering look, consult with a hairstylist for their expertise, and think about maintenance and styling preferences.

What is the number 4 haircut? ›

A number 4 buzz cut stands out as a popular choice among men seeking a neat, low-maintenance hairstyle. Characterized by using a hair clipper set to guard 4, this cut leaves your hair about 1/2 inch long, offering a clean yet rugged look that's incredibly easy to manage.

What to do if you get a haircut you don't like? ›

Bad Haircuts Can Be Disappointing—Here's How to Deal With It
  1. 01 of 09. Talk to Your Stylist. ...
  2. 02 of 09. Get a Second Opinion. ...
  3. 03 of 09. Grow it Out. ...
  4. 04 of 09. Try Using Hair Extensions. ...
  5. 05 of 09. Accessorize with Clips and Hats. ...
  6. 06 of 09. Consider Looking For a New Stylist. ...
  7. 07 of 09. Try Styling Your Hair in New Ways. ...
  8. 08 of 09.

How do I get a specific haircut? ›

If you're debating a drastic haircut, schedule a consultation with your stylist beforehand. You can raise any concerns you may have about committing to a new look. Your stylist can also give you expert advice on your face shape and which cuts will be most flattering.

How do I get a haircut with anxiety? ›

Go in with a plan

Sometimes the anxiety comes from the unknown. In this case, do your research ahead of your visit and have a good idea of the cut you're looking for. Feel free to bring in photos for your stylist to look at. Having a general idea of what the outcome will be reduces the fear of the unknown.

What to do when you don't know what haircut you want? ›

Ask your barber: As Shane Pritchard, experienced barber at Goodfellas Barbershop, Trecenydd, Wales, suggests, ask the guy/girl in the know, your barber, "…my advice would be to ask your barber what hairstyle would suit best and what would work best with your head shape and hair type".

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