I borrowed my best friend’s shorts. Now she thinks she might have an STD. Could I have gotten it from wearing her shorts? (2024)

By Kendall @ Planned Parenthood | Jan. 31, 2013, 12:38 p.m.

Category: Ask the Experts

My best friend let me borrow some of her shorts. Now, a few days later she’s telling me that she thinks she might have an STD. Is it possible that I could have gotten and STD from wearing her shorts?

While most STDs can’t be transmitted from sharing clothing, there are a few that can: scabies, pubic lice (also known as crabs), and molluscum contagiosum. The thing to know about these exceptions is that they can all be spread through sexual activity, but don’t necessarily have to be. They can be spread through skin-to-skin contact of any kind, or sharing clothing or bedding. They also all cause very noticeable itchiness and rashes, so your friend would likely know if she had one.

The truth is that almost all STDs are transmitted through things like unprotected sex (oral, anal, or vagin*) and in some cases, skin-to-skin contact — but most STDs can’t live on the surface of a pair of shorts and then infect another person. You can protect yourself from STDs when you have sex by using condoms.

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I borrowed my best friend’s shorts. Now she thinks she might have an STD. Could I have gotten it from wearing her shorts? (2024)

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Can you get an STD from wearing someone's shorts? ›

While most STDs can't be transmitted from sharing clothing, there are a few that can: scabies, pubic lice (also known as crabs), and molluscum contagiosum. The thing to know about these exceptions is that they can all be spread through sexual activity, but don't necessarily have to be.

Can you get an STD from someone's clothes? ›

Answer: Most STDs, such as chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, herpes, and genital warts, are spread only through direct sexual contact with an infected person. Crabs (pubic lice) or scabies, which are often sexually transmitted, can be passed through contact with infested items like clothes, sheets, or towels.

Can you get chlamydia from wearing someone's shorts? ›

You can only get chlamydia by having intimate sexual contact with an infected person, not from casual contact, touching another person's clothing, or consuming contaminated food or water.

How do I know if my friend has an STD? ›

Signs and symptoms may include:
  1. Clear, white, greenish or yellowish vagin*l discharge.
  2. Discharge from the penis.
  3. Strong vagin*l odor.
  4. vagin*l itching or irritation.
  5. Itching or irritation inside the penis.
  6. Pain during sexual intercourse.
  7. Painful urination.

Can you get HPV from sharing shorts? ›

HPV cannot be spread by touching hard surfaces, like a doorknob or toilet seat. It also cannot be passed by sharing clothes or towels.

How long can STDs live on skin? ›

How Long Can STDs Live On Skin? In short, STDs can live on the skin for a short period of time. Depending on the strain of the STD, it can survive for anywhere from a few minutes to several hours, with most strains surviving for around 8 hours.

How long can gonorrhea live on clothes? ›

gonorrhoeae bacteria require a warm, moist environment such as the mucous membranes of the urinary tract, the vagin*, or the anus (both men and women). Outside of the body, the bacteria survive for only about one minute.

How soon can you pass on an STD? ›

The Window Period for Common STIs:

Chlamydia: Window period: 5-14 days. Gonorrhoea: Window period: 5-14 days. Herpes: Window period: 6-12 weeks. Syphilis: Window period: 4-12 weeks.

How likely is it to get an STD? ›

Unfortunately, it's quite likely. People who have sex without using condoms are at high risk of getting sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). It doesn't matter how many people the person has had sex with. Even if someone has only had one sexual partner, that partner could have a disease.

What are 5 symptoms of chlamydia? ›

If they do get symptoms, the most common include:
  • pain when urinating.
  • unusual vagin*l discharge.
  • pain in the tummy or pelvis.
  • pain during sex.
  • bleeding after sex.
  • bleeding between periods.

How long does it take for a STD to show up in a man? ›

Symptoms usually appear after 2 to 3 weeks but could start earlier or much later. They include: one or more small painless sores or ulcers on the genitals. a blotchy rash and flu-like symptoms that may follow a few weeks later.

Can you get chlamydia from a rag? ›

We have not seen any evidence that gonorrhea and Chlamydia live on wash cloths or are passed that way. They are most often passed through unprotected oral, anal and vagin*l sex.

Do I have an STD or am I just paranoid? ›

3 The only way to tell which one you have—or if you have an STI at all—is to go visit your local healthcare provider or a free clinic and get tested. There is no way for someone to self-diagnose what STI is causing a discharge without having a laboratory test done.

Can you tell who has the STD first? ›

There's no way to tell by looking if a person has an STD — even people who have STDs sometimes don't know it. If you have had sex before, you and your boyfriend can get tested together at a local health clinic like Planned Parenthood.

What STD symptoms appear within 48 hours? ›

Gonorrhea. The symptoms of gonorrhea may also appear within 24-48 hours following contact. The most common sign of gonorrhea is a thick, cloudy or bloody discharge from the penis or the vagin*. For that reason, gonorrhea is often referred to as the “drip”, it is also commonly known as the clap.

Can HPV pass through clothing? ›

HPV is not passed on through kissing, hugging or sharing towels, clothing and everyday items such as cutlery or a toilet seat. Using condoms (male or female) every time you have vagin*l or anal sex is the most effective way to avoid getting genital warts, other than being celibate (not having sex).

Does washing clothes remove HPV? ›

HPV can't be spread by washing clothes together, since the virus wouldn't survive. The virus does not survive washing, whether by hand or in a washing machine.

How long does it take for HPV to show up after exposure? ›

HPV infection spreads from one person to another through sexual contact involving the anus, mouth, or vagin*. The virus can be spread, even if you DO NOT see the warts. You may not see warts for 6 weeks to 6 months after becoming infected. You may not notice them for years.

Which STD stays in the body for life? ›

Of these, 4 are currently curable: syphilis, gonorrhoea, chlamydia and trichom*oniasis. The other 4 are incurable viral infections: hepatitis B, herpes simplex virus (HSV), HIV and human papillomavirus (HPV).

What type of STD stays with you for life? ›

However, there are still four incurable STDs:
  • hepatitis B.
  • herpes.
  • HIV.
  • HPV.
Jul 26, 2018

Can STDs live on bed sheets? ›

Share Sheets (or Towels or Clothes)

You aren't likely to find viral infections present in your towels or sheets, but there could be other infections waiting in the fibers. The single-celled protozoan parasite called Trichom*onas vagin*lis causes trichom*oniasis.

How did I get gonorrhea if I didn't cheat? ›

The main ways people get gonorrhea are from having vagin*l sex, anal sex, or oral sex. You can also get gonorrhea by touching your eye if you have infected fluids on your hand. Gonorrhea can also be spread to a baby during birth if the mother has it.

How did I get gonorrhea and my partner didn t? ›

The short answer

For example, someone might have tested negative for genital gonorrhea but not been tested for oral or anal gonorrhea, and potentially transmit the STI through anal or oral intercourse. STI stands for sexually transmitted infection and STD stands for sexually transmitted disease.

Why is the clap called the clap? ›

The article notes that years later in the 1500s, there was a widely recognized relationship between prostitution and gonorrhea, and this is when it got its nickname “the clap,” which derives from the French word les clapiers (literally meaning rabbit huts), which referred to “the small huts where prostitutes often ...

Can you sleep with someone with an STD and not get it? ›

Will I Automatically Get an STD If I Sleep with Someone Who Has a STD? No, some sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), also commonly referred to as sexually transmitted infections (STIs), are not transmitted consistently every time an infected person has sex with someone who is not infected.

Who is more likely to get an STD male or female? ›

Women are also biologically more vulnerable to STDs than are men. Women are more susceptible to STDs during sexual intercourse because the vagin*l surface is larger and more vulnerable to sexual secretions than the primarily skin-covered penis.

What are signs of STDs in females? ›

Women may experience the following symptoms:
  • Burning or itching in the vagin*.
  • A discharge or odor from the vagin*.
  • Pain around the pelvis.
  • Bleeding from the vagin* that is not normal.
  • Pain deep inside during sex.
  • Sores, bumps or blisters in the vagin*, anus, or mouth.
  • Burning and pain with urine or with bowel movements.

What's the worst STD to catch? ›

The most dangerous viral STD is human immunodeficiency virus (HIV), which leads to AIDS. Other incurable viral STDs include human papilloma virus (HPV), hepatitis B and genital herpes.

What age group has the most STD? ›

About half of these infections are in people between the ages of 15 and 24. Young people are at greater risk of getting an STD for several reasons: Young women's bodies are biologically more prone to STDs. Some young people do not get the recommended STD tests.

Do most people get an STD in their life? ›

Sexually transmitted infections (STIs) are very common, and over half of people in the U.S. will have an STI in their lifetime. In fact, the CDC estimates there are over 110 million sexually transmitted infections among men and women in the U.S., with 20 million new cases each year.

What is late stage chlamydia? ›

What is late-stage chlamydia? Late-stage chlamydia refers to an infection that has spread to other parts of the body. For example, it may have spread to the cervix (cervicitis), testicular tubes (epididymitis), eyes (conjunctivitis), or throat (pharyngitis), causing inflammation and pain.

What does chlamydia urine look like? ›

Cloudy urine. Abnormal vagin*l discharge. Abnormal vagin*l bleeding with intercourse or between periods.

What is chlamydia first symptom? ›

What are the early signs of chlamydia?
  • pain or burning while peeing.
  • pain during sex.
  • lower belly pain.
  • abnormal vagin*l discharge (may be yellowish and have a strong smell)
  • bleeding between periods.
  • pus or a watery/milky discharge from the penis.
  • swollen or tender testicl*s.
  • pain, discharge and/or bleeding around the anus.
Sep 29, 2021

Can anxiety cause false STD symptoms? ›

STD Symptoms If you already have an STD such as herpes or HIV, anxiety will have the effect of bringing dormant symptoms (such as sores on and in the mouth or the genital areas) to the forefront.

How do you know if you have an STD without getting tested? ›

The symptoms of an STI can include:
  • an unusual discharge from the vagin*, penis or anus.
  • pain when peeing.
  • lumps or skin growths around the genitals or bottom (anus)
  • a rash.
  • unusual vagin*l bleeding.
  • itchy genitals or anus.
  • blisters and sores around your genitals or anus.
  • warts around your genitals or anus.

Can a guy tell if they have an STD? ›

The signs that usually alert men to an infection—bumps or rashes on the genitals, discharge, discomfort or itching in the penis or testicl*s, or pain while urinating or ejacul*ting—can be mild and easily mistaken for other conditions. Unfortunately, a lack of symptoms doesn't mean you don't have an STD.

Can chlamydia come from poor hygiene? ›

Chlamydia cannot be passed on through casual contact, such as kissing and hugging, or from sharing baths, towels, swimming pools, toilet seats or cutlery.

How did I get chlamydia if my partner is clean? ›

If 2 people who don't have any STDs have sex, it's not possible for either of them to get one. A couple can't create an STD from nothing — they have to get spread from one person to another.

How did I get chlamydia and my partner didn t? ›

Although chlamydia is highly contagious, it does not always transmit to a person's sexual partners. It is also possible to have a false-negative test result. Having more frequent sex with a partner who has chlamydia may increase a person's risk of contracting it.

What is STD anxiety? ›

Sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) are a common concern for many people. The fear of contracting an STD can lead to paranoia and anxiety, which can negatively impact mental health.

How do I stop stressing about STDs? ›

Some helpful STI coping tips may include:
  1. remember that you're not alone.
  2. implement a self-care practice.
  3. improve your overall health and wellness.
  4. use available support resources.
  5. consume more sex-positive content.
  6. openly communicate with partners.
  7. learn more about STIs and sexual health.
Mar 7, 2022

What if I am scared I might have an STD? ›

If you think you may have a sexually transmitted infection (STI), go to your GP or local sexual health or genitourinary medicine (GUM) clinic. Most STIs can be successfully treated, but it's important to get any symptoms checked as soon as possible. Read about visiting an STI clinic.

What are the 3 most common STDs? ›

The most common sexually transmitted infections in the United States are HPV, chlamydia, and gonorrhea.

How can you tell if a girl has chlamydia? ›

Laboratory tests can diagnose chlamydia. Your healthcare provider may ask you to provide a urine sample for testing, or they might use (or ask you to use) a cotton swab to get a vagin*l sample.

How can I test for STDs at home? ›

For at-home STD testing, you collect a urine sample or an oral or genital swab and then send it to a lab for analysis. You can collect the sample in the privacy of your home without the need for a pelvic exam or office visit.

What is the quickest STD to show symptoms? ›

How Long Does It Take for an STD to Show Up?
  • Gonorrhea – One to 28 days.
  • Genital and oral herpes – Two to 12 days.
  • Trichom*oniasis – Five to 28 days.
  • Chlamydia – One to three weeks.
  • HIV – Two to four weeks.
  • Hepatitis B – Eight to 22 weeks.
  • HPV – One month to 10 years.
  • Syphilis – Three weeks to 20 years.
Dec 16, 2020

What if I test negative but still worried about STD? ›

If you recently tested negative for an infection but are still experiencing symptoms, consider getting tested again. STIs can be dangerous to your well-being if left undetected and untreated. When it comes to your sexual health, prioritize testing and visit an urgent care center at your convenience.

How do you treat an STD without going to the doctor? ›

There is no proven alternative therapy to treating an STI. Treatment is testing and antibiotics. The most effective complementary treatments of STIs — that is, those that that go along with standard medical treatment — involve prevention and patient counseling.

Can STD spread through surface? ›

They can't survive in air or on surfaces, such as a toilet seat. You can't contract a bacterial STI from sitting on a toilet seat. Bacterial STIs are transmitted through sex without a condom or other barrier method, including oral, anal, and vagin*l sex.

How did I get chlamydia if my partner doesn't have it? ›

Although chlamydia is highly contagious, it does not always transmit to a person's sexual partners. It is also possible to have a false-negative test result. Having more frequent sex with a partner who has chlamydia may increase a person's risk of contracting it.

Can STDs be absorbed through skin? ›

Most sexually transmitted infections (STIs) spread either by exposure to infected fluids or by direct contact with infected skin. Skin-to-skin STIs are spread from one person to another by skin-to-skin contact and can be transmitted without intercourse.

Can STD be transmitted easily? ›

STDs pass from one person to another through vagin*l, oral, and anal sex. They also can spread through intimate physical contact like heavy petting, though this is not very common.

Can STD be transmitted from saliva? ›

Yes. Many STDs and other infections are spread through oral sex. Anyone exposed to an infected partner can get an STD in the mouth, throat, genitals, or rectum.

Can 2 clean partners get STDs? ›

If 2 people who don't have any STDs have sex, it's not possible for either of them to get one. A couple can't create an STD from nothing — they have to get spread from one person to another.

How did I get chlamydia in a faithful relationship? ›

You can only get chlamydia from someone already infected with the STI; it's transmitted by vagin*l, anal, or oral sex. If you've had it before, you can get reinfected with it, regardless if you were in contact with bodily fluids or not.

How long does it take for an STD to show up in your mouth? ›

Genital and oral herpes – Two to 12 days. Trichom*oniasis – Five to 28 days. Chlamydia – One to three weeks. HIV – Two to four weeks.

What are 3 possible symptoms of STDs? ›

Signs and symptoms that might indicate an STI include:
  • Sores or bumps on the genitals or in the oral or rectal area.
  • Painful or burning urination.
  • Discharge from the penis.
  • Unusual or odorous vagin*l discharge.
  • Unusual vagin*l bleeding.
  • Pain during sex.
Apr 14, 2023

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