Mad Men: All 19 of Don Draper's Mistresses Explained (2024)

Don Draper (Jon Hamm) had 19 mistresses throughout Mad Men's seven seasons, not counting his three wives. Created by Matthew Weiner, Mad Men was one of AMC's prestige series that followed the lives and careers of Madison Avenue advertising executives throughout the 1960s. While the other ad men of Sterling Cooper (later, Sterling Cooper Draper Pryce) also carried on extra-marital affairs, Donald F. Draper by far had the most. Draper is really Richard "Dick" Whitman, and he stole the identity of Lt. Don Draper (Troy Ruptash), who was killed in the Korean War. Posing as the injured-in-action Lt. Draper so he could escape the war, the "new" Don's ruse was discovered by Lt. Draper's widow, Anna (Melina Page Hamilton). However, Anna and Don became friends, and they maintained their "marriage" until he met Betty Hofstadt (January Jones). From there, Don Draper/Dick Whitman went on to have an unrivaled infidelity streak.

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Don divorced Anna and married Betty with her blessing. Despite having two kids with Betty, Don cheated on her numerous times as his advertising career took off. In Mad Men season 3, Betty, who long suspected Don's infidelities, learned that he's really Dick Whitman. Betty divorced Don, who then married his secretary, Megan Calvet (Jessica Pare) between seasons 4 and 5. He couldn't stay faithful to Megan either though, it turned out. Despite attempts to keep his private life and work life separate, Don's affairs were well-known within Sterling Cooper, and it's obvious that Don had many more affairs beyond what fans saw in the episodes of Mad Men. But regardless of what his grand total actually might be, 19 women in seven seasons of Mad Men (outside his wives) is the number of affairs the ad executive is seen to have on screen. Here's the backstory on all 19 of Don Draper's mistresses.

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Midge Daniels

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Midge (Rosemarie DeWitt) is the first of Don Draper's mistresses fans meet in Mad Men's pilot. Midge is a bohemian artist who is a sharp contrast to the slick Madison Avenue ad man. Midge is also a swerve as audiences are initially led to believe Midge is Don's significant other before the end of the first episode reveals Don has a wife, Betty, and two young children in the suburbs. Don's fling with Midge ends in season 1, but she reappears in Mad Men season 4. Sadly, Midge has become addicted to heroin and Jon Hamm's Draper cuts her a check before vanishing from her life.

Rachel Menken

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Rachel Menken (Maggie Siff) was a Sterling Cooper client who owned a department store. Don didn't pursue his mutual attraction to Rachel until after he ended his affair with Midge, but his fling with Rachel didn't last long. However, Don did confess details of his life as Dick Whitman to Rachel. In Mad Men season 2, Don ran into Rachel, who is now married, and in season 3, Don is sad to learn that Rachel died of leukemia.

Joy

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Joy (Laura Ramsey) was a wealthy nomad Don meets when he travels to Los Angeles in the Mad Men season 2 episode, "The Jet Set." Don abandons Pete Campbell (Vincent Kartheiser) and stays with Joy and her strange, aristocratic friends for a few days before he leaves to visit Anna Draper and then return to New York. The free-spirited Joy may have been the youngest of Don's flings in Mad Men.

Bobbie Barrett

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Bobbie Barrett (Melinda McGraw) was the wife and manager of comedian Jimmy Barrett (Patrick Fishler). Don meets Bobbie after Jimmy upsets the owner of his sponsor, Utz Potato Chips, and their affair included getting in a car accident that required Peggy (Elisabeth Moss) to help out and let Bobbie stay with her. Don ended their Mad Men season 2 relationship when he learned Bobbie had been gossiping about his prowess in the bedroom.

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Shelly

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Shelly (Sunny Mabrey) was a stewardess Don had a one-night stand with when Don traveled to Baltimore with Sal Romano (Bryan Blatt) in Mad Men season 3. Shelly invited Don and Sal to dinner with her flight attendant friends, but she was gone after a fire alarm evacuated the hotel. But the real fallout of Don's Baltimore trip was his discovery that Sal is a closeted hom*osexual, which later led to Romano's dismissal from Sterling Cooper.

Suzanne Farrell

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Suzanne Farrell (Abigail Spencer) was Sally's teacher who was Don's last mistress before Betty ended their marriage. Despite her hesitation, Suzanne began an affair with Don, but it abruptly ended right when they were planning to leave on a vacation together at the end of Mad Men season 3. Betty had discovered Don's hidden records that he was really Dick Whitman and confronted him, which immediately put an end to Draper's tryst with Miss Farrell.

Candace

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In Mad Men season 4, Don moved out of his house with Betty and Jon Hamm's problematic ad man took an apartment in Manhattan. Candace (Erin Cummings) is a prostitute Don frequently hired, and later in season 4, Draper introduces Lane Pryce (Jared Harris) to Candace and her friend to cheer him up when his marriage is on the rocks.

Allison

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Allison (Alexa Alemanni) became Don's secretary after Peggy became a copywriter, and he brought her along when he left Sterling Cooper to co-found Sterling Cooper Draper Pryce. Unfortunately, Allison succumbed to her attraction to Don and slept with him after the office Christmas party. She was then heartbroken when Draper pretended like it never happened and gave her cash as a Christmas bonus. Allison quit SCDP, and Joan Harris (Christina Hendricks) replaced her with the elderly Ida Blankenship (Randee Heller).

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Bethany Van Nuys

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Bethany Van Nuys (Anna Camp) is a friend of Roger Sterling's young bride Jane (Peyton List) who Don is set up with. Despite her youth and charms, Don doesn't have much chemistry with Bethany, and he eventually ends things after a few dates. However, Bethany on his arm does make a couple of key people in Don's life jealous: Ted Chaough (Kevin Rahm) and his wife ran into Don and Bethany at Benihana's, and later, Betty is furious when she finds herself at the same restaurant as Don and Bethany.

Alice and Doris

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When Don wins a Clio Award in Mad Men season 4's "Waldorf Stories," he goes on a bender that lasts for days. Don goes to bed with Alice (Amy Motta), a woman he picks up at a bar while he's celebrating his Clio, but he later wakes up next to a waitress named Doris (Becky Wahlstrom), whom he doesn't recognize. Worse, Doris calls him "Dick," which means he drunkenly called himself by his secret birth name and not his carefully maintained Don Draper identity during his blackout tryst with the waitress.

Dr. Faye Miller

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Dr. Faye Miller (Cara Buono) is a consultant for a consumer research company working with Sterling Cooper Draper Pryce in Mad Men season 4. Faye is initially skeptical about Don's advances, but he reveals the truth about his past as Dick Whitman when Draper has a panic attack about his identity theft and desertion being discovered by the U.S. government. Don ends the relationship after he proposes to Megan and the heartbroken Faye tells him that she hopes his fiancée knows that Don "only likes the beginnings of things."

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Andrea Rhodes

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The newlywed Don and Megan ran into Andrea Rhodes (Mädchen Amick from Twin Peaks) in the elevator in Mad Men season 5. From Andrea's relentless flirting with Don, it was clear they were lovers in the past, although when it happened wasn't disclosed. When Don is feverishly ill, Andrea entered his apartment and attempted to sleep with him. Don chokes her to death and hides her body under the bed. It turned out to be only a dream but Don "killing" Andrea was one of Mad Men's most odd and disturbing moments.

Sylvia Rosen

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Don surprisingly didn't have any known affairs during the early part of his marriage to Megan in Mad Men season 5, but by season 6, Draper is back to his old tricks — and with his neighbor, no less. Sylvia Rosen (Linda Cardinelli, most known these days as Hawkeye's wife Laura Barton in the MCU) is the wife of Don's friend Dr. Arthur Rosen (Brian Markinson). Don and Sylvia carry on their affair under Megan and Arthur's noses until Sally accidentally walks in on her father having sex with his neighbor, which immediately put an end to it.

Lee Cabot

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Technically, Don didn't have an affair with Lee Cabot (Neve Campbell), who he meets on a red-eye flight from LA to New York in Mad Men's season 7 premiere. Draper is clearly attracted to Lee, a wealthy widow, and they share an intimate plane ride home, but Don turns down her invitation to "share a cab" with Lee when they land in New York.

Amy

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Amy (Jenny Wade, whose pre-Mad Men filmography includes as an extra on American Horror Story) is one of Megan's friends in California after she left New York and moved to the West Coast to pursue her acting career in Hollywood. After a party at Megan's house, Don's estranged wife invites him to have a three-way with her and Amy.

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Tricia

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Tricia (Kirstin Ford) is a stewardess Don became acquainted with when he flew to LA on weekends to visit Megan in Mad Men season 7. Tricia calls Don's answering service and left a message that she was in town. When Don calls her over to his apartment, Tricia spills red wine on his white carpet.

Diana Bauer

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While out on the town with some female companions, Don becomes fixated with a waitress at a diner who Draper thinks he met before. The waitress' name is Diana Bauer (Elizabeth Reaser from The Haunting of Hill House) and she turns out to be a desperately sad woman who abandoned her son in the Midwest. When she vanishes, Don drives to Wisconsin to try to find her. As Mad Men drew to a close, Diana was an odd affair for Don to fixate on, but she provided some of the impetus for Draper to leave New York heading towards the series finale.

Eve

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Eve (Fiona Gubelman) was Don Draper's final mistress in Mad Men's series finale. As Don makes his way to California, he spends time racing cars, and Eve is the local woman he beds. She tries to steal his wallet, but Don catches her and gives her money anyway. No doubt, Don continued having affairs after Mad Men ended, especially if he returned to New York to resume his advertising career.

Which of His Mistresses Should Don Have Ended Up With

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Don Draper on Mad Men wasn't lacking when it came to extramarital affairs. So, out of all 19 women, who do people believe Draper should've ended up with? Starting out, it should at least be said that affairs are never the answer, and most of these women ended up better for it when Don didn't reenter their lives. Truthfully, no one deserves to be cheated on, especially not as often as Draper did to his three wives. Some believe that Suzanne (Sally's teacher) was the right choice for the ad executive, as she was one of the more innocent of the bunch and seemed to harbor legitimate feelings for Don. Rachel Menken was another popular choice for Don to end up with by the end of Mad Men. Despite their affair being short-lived, the two had obvious chemistry, and Don was honest with her about his true identity. In addition, she fell in love believing that Don was a single man, whereas other mistresses knew that he was married. Megan and Faye were also popular choices. Regardless, cheating is never right, and Don Draper in Mad Men often reaped the consequences of his actions.

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Mad Men: All 19 of Don Draper's Mistresses Explained? ›

He has symptoms of narcissistic personality disorder and antisocial personality disorder, but he also appears to have an impulse control disorder.

What is Don Draper's illness? ›

He has symptoms of narcissistic personality disorder and antisocial personality disorder, but he also appears to have an impulse control disorder.

Did Don and Peggy sleep together? ›

Peggy is a woman who just never fell under the spell of Don Draper. Her colleagues often assumed that she built her career by sleeping with Don, but they've never had that kind of relationship — thank goodness.

Did Don Draper sleep with Joan? ›

Joan's relationship with Don Draper was never a romantic one, but rather a relationship based on trust, respect and mutual admiration for each other. ("Guy Walks Into an Advertising Agency") ("Christmas Waltz"). Don was at first very intimidated by Joan when he started working at Sterling Cooper.

Why did Betty Draper gain weight? ›

While Jones was pregnant with her now-six-month-old son Xander during filming, instead of writing that into the plot, series creator Matthew Weiner had the series' writers explain it away by explaining that Betty had packed on the pounds out of boredom, depression and a distance from her second husband, Henry Francis.

Who is Diana Bauer to Don Draper? ›

Diana Bauer

She is a waitress when Don meets her and is shown to be someone who isn't that intelligent throughout her run on the show. While Diana is inquisitive and does read, she never really engages much in conversation in the way that many of Don's partners do.

What is Betty Draper's diagnosis? ›

Betty Francis (January Jones), the ex-wife of advertising executive extraordinaire Don Draper (Jon Hamm), was diagnosed with terminal lung cancer. Betty has been routinely marginalized and dismissed, but her final storyline proved her character is a woman of poise and grace.

Why do Betty Draper's hands shake? ›

She Was Psychologically Struggling

Betty started seeing a therapist in season 1 after she reported that her hands tend to start shaking uncontrollably and that they feel numb. It turned out that the symptom was psychosomatic, which indicates that Betty was in a lot of distress.

How old was Betty Draper when she died? ›

Her death from lung cancer at age 38(ish) is somehow the payment that Mad Men—which offered a giddy sleekness not at all unlike that of the shiny exchange explained in my first paragraph—has been willing to make so that viewers will know the beauty of capitalism kills, or rather kills in some cases.

How many people did Don Draper sleep with? ›

Well, we've done some intensive investigations and have found that over the course of the nine years that Mad Men was set, Don had sex or was intimate with 17 women.

Why did Don call Peggy? ›

We learn more about the source of this developing bond in episode five, “The New Girl.” Don calls Peggy to bail him out of jail after he and Bobbie Barret drunkenly crashed the car he was driving. In flashback, we see that Don was the only person who visited Peggy in the hospital when she (surprisingly) had her baby.

How many mistresses did Don Draper have? ›

Don Draper (Jon Hamm) had 19 mistresses throughout Mad Men's seven seasons, not counting his three wives. Created by Matthew Weiner, Mad Men was one of AMC's prestige series that followed the lives and careers of Madison Avenue advertising executives throughout the 1960s.

Who did Don Draper lose his virginity to? ›

In an interesting twist on the mother theme, the vagrant black woman who breaks into the Drapers to rob them fashions herself as Don's mother. She calls herself Grandma Aida when Sally confronts her. Aimee took Don's virginity; Aida takes his gold watch.

Why do Don and Megan divorce? ›

Megan had moved to Los Angeles to pursue her acting career and asked him for a divorce. Feeling guilty over his past infidelities, Draper gave her a generous divorce settlement.

What happened to Peggy's baby? ›

It is revealed that at the end of Season 1, Peggy gave birth to a son, which she gave up for adoption.

Does Betty Draper have a third baby? ›

Season 3, episode 5 of Mad Men: “The Fog,” is otherwise known as the episode where the third and final Draper child, Gene, is born. As Betty gives birth in a drug-induced twilight sleep (it was the '60s, after all), she hallucinates a conversation with her recently deceased father.

What years does Mad Men span? ›

It ran on the cable network AMC from July 19, 2007, to May 17, 2015, lasting for seven seasons and 92 episodes. The show is set from March 1960 to November 1970.

What happens to Don Draper in the end? ›

Ending interpretation

The series finale ends with Don Draper meditating on a hilltop and cuts to the iconic 1971 "Hilltop" television advertisem*nt for Coca-Cola, which leaves viewers to interpret whether Don created the ad.

Who does Don marry after Betty? ›

For the first three seasons, Don was married to Betty Draper (née Hofstadt; January Jones). At the end of the third season, she divorced him and married Henry Francis (Christopher Stanley), an aide to then-New York Governor Nelson Rockefeller.

Who has the best relationship with Don Draper? ›

  • Sylvia Rosen. Despite settling into what appears to be a happy second marriage with Megan Calvet (more on her later), Don steps back into his old habits soon enough. ...
  • Allison. ...
  • Midge Daniels. ...
  • Rachel Menken. ...
  • Megan Calvet. ...
  • Suzanne Ferrell. ...
  • Faye Miller. ...
  • Betty Draper.
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Does Betty Draper get skinny again? ›

6. Betty Gets Skinny Again. No more "fat Betty!" Don's ex had been following her weight-loss plan, and after she had dramatically put on the pounds, Betty thins out after she realizes that Henry's career may put her in the spotlight. Here's Your First Look at the Mad Men Season 7 Premiere!

Why does Betty sleep with Don? ›

Betty slept with Don as a way to prove to herself it wasn't her fault he had constantly cheated on her. As young, beautiful, stylish, famous, and easygoing as Megan was, Don wasn't happy and cheated on her anyway. Betty and Henry were doing fine at that point so it had nothing to do with him.

Why was Mad Men cancelled? ›

Mad Men wasn't canceled, but instead, it ended with season 7 because creator and showrunner Matthew Weiner felt it was the right time to conclude the story. Indeed, most of the characters had reached the natural conclusion of the arcs.

Why did Betty Draper dye her hair? ›

By season 5, Betty Draper is Betty Francis and is trying to break free of her atypical looking housewife image by dyeing her hair a darker shade. As soon she comes through the door her oldest son Bobby see's her and yells, “You look ugly”. Bobby might've been harsh, but he's right. It was awful.

Why did Betty shoot the birds? ›

This, like when she shoots at the pigeons with a toy gun, is an empty gesture to keep appearances (which she's been programmed to do all her life). She pretends to shoot down her own dreams instead of really, truly face them.

Does Joan have a baby in Mad Men? ›

Season 5. During the gap between Season 4 and 5, Joan has giving birth to healthy baby bo neamed Kevin and is currently finishing her last couple of weeks of maternity leave. She eventually returns back to Sterling Cooper Draper Pryce in the episode "Signal 30".

Did Betty wear a fat suit in Mad Men? ›

It just seems lazy. Is January Jones really that fat? No. While the actress, who was pregnant with her new son at the time, had put on weight, she wore a fatsuit and prosthetic facial and neck appliances to make her appear fatter than she was.

Who does Joan end up with Mad Men? ›

In the series finale, "Person to Person", Joan starts her own film production company. She attempts to recruit Peggy as a partner, but Peggy chooses to stay at McCann. Joan and Richard continue dating and become somewhat serious about one another, but he is opposed to her re-entering the business world.

Why does Peggy hate Don? ›

For Someone Who Hated Don's Thanklessness, She's Pretty Cold As A Boss. One of the many reasons why Peggy started resenting Don over the course of the show is the fact that he never really thanked her for her contributions, and took credit for her work, at times, as well.

How long would Don Draper have lived? ›

Don Draper had many years to go. If he were alive today (and not a fictional person), he would be in his late 80s. Given the damage those decades of cigarettes and alcohol would have done to his body, he probably would not be in great shape. And it is not hard to imagine who would be taking care of him.

How old was Don Draper at the end? ›

The episode takes place in November 1970, exactly 10 years and eight months after the pilot, which would pin Don's real age at 44 at the end of the series. The series' seven seasons span a decade in Draper's life, from his mid-30s in 1960 to his mid-40s in 1970, revealing lingering pieces of his past along the way.

Was Don Draper a genius? ›

Don Draper is a creative genius. It's a premise Mad Men viewers have been reminded of constantly during the show's four seasons.

Did Stan adopt Peggy's baby? ›

She also reveals that she gave her baby up for adoption to Stan, a man with whom she has spent four seasons building intimacy. Peggy wasn't able to erase that from her identity like Don suggested, but she comes to peace with it so many years later.

Did Don Draper know Peggy had a baby? ›

Don was the only person who knew Peggy gave birth, and he was the only person who visited her in the hospital. His advice — "It will shock you how much this never happened," — ultimately got Peggy out of her hospital bed and back to work.

Did Peggy know she was pregnant? ›

One of Peggy's story arcs involved her pregnancy after sleeping with Pete. It was quite extreme, her not knowing she was pregnant while her colleagues noticed her growing bump.

When did Don Draper lose his virginity? ›

The lothario lost his virginity to a prostitute when he was a teen and in the latest episode of the show, entitled The Crash, the advertising executive relives the traumatic experience. Don is reminded of the pivotal day after falling ill with an overwhelming cough, a similar illness to one he suffered as a child.

Did Don Draper sleep with his secretary? ›

A Sterling Cooper employee since Season 1, Allison started as a receptionist and became Don's secretary in Season 3. When a drunken Don forgets his keys after a Christmas party, she delivers them to his apartment and the two sleep together.

Did Don Draper love Anna? ›

Anna Draper

It's obvious that Don truly cares for Anna and it seems like this is only possible because of the platonic nature of their relationship. She is truly the most important person in his life.

Is Betty Draper a bad mother? ›

Betty appears to be a cold and neglectful mother—especially by the standards of today's hyper-involved parents. She allows her daughter, Sally, to run around the house, submerged head to toe beneath a body-length plastic dry cleaning bag.

Was Don Draper in love with Rachel? ›

The first is Rachel Menken, and you could say she's the prototype when it comes to Don's preference for sad brunettes. Even though the Don/Rachel romance is short-lived, it's framed as one of the defining loves of his life.

What is the age difference between Don and Megan? ›

A representative for Mad Men told The Daily Beast that Megan is somewhere between 25 and 26 years old this season, while Don is 41, Peggy is in her late 20s, and Betty is in her mid-30s.

Why did Don love Megan? ›

Don is falling in love with Megan, in large part, because she's not Betty, exploding into rage, or Faye, nervous and freaked out around the kids. She's not high-strung and unpredictable. ... Part of Megan's appeal is that she'll let Don go back to thinking about work and nothing but work.

Why did Don fall out of love with Megan? ›

She was almost perfect for Don... but he was ultimately too broken as a character to really connect to her. His infatuation with his neighbor ultimately led to Don losing any interest in Megan, and their marriage quickly took a turn for the worse over time.

How old was baby Peggy when she died? ›

Diana Serra Cary, silent-film star 'Baby Peggy' who often cheated death on set, dies at 101. During her brief career as a silent-film star, “Baby Peggy” came perilously close to death time and again.

Why did they make Peggy pregnant? ›

The entire reason Married with Children opted to make Peggy pregnant was that actress Katey Sagal was pregnant in real life, and the decision was made to write the pregnancy into the show instead of trying to use camera tricks to hide it, or make up an excuse why Peggy had to go away for a while.

Why does Peggy gain weight? ›

Throughout Season One, her character unknowingly becomes pregnant. Moss did not gain any weight for the role, however, but wore increasingly bigger padding, along with a fat suit, and makeup artists used prosthetics to make her face and neck appear fat and swollen.

Whose baby is Betty pregnant with? ›

Betty is pregnant with Archie's child, and in 25 years, he'll be crowned the Maple King, just like his dad. Cheryl explains Archie's blood is what will bring the town back to its glory, as he has the distinction of being the town's one true, pure heart.

Is Sally Draper a baby boomer? ›

Sally Draper (Kiernan Shipka)—the baby boomer of Matthew Weiner's Mad Men—is essentially you or your parents. Watch our take and find out what her story tells us about the boomer generation.

What happened to Sal on Mad Men? ›

The actor who played him gives the character a proper goodbye. On the ninth episode of Mad Men's third season, Don Draper fired Salvatore Romano by request of a major client who threatened to take his business elsewhere (and whose advances had been rejected by the closeted art director just the night before).

Do they smoke real cigarettes in Mad Men? ›

The actors do not smoke real cigarettes. They smoke Ecstacy herbal cigarettes, which are tobacco and nicotine free. Show creator Matthew Weiner said in a New York Times article, "You don't want actors smoking real cigarettes. They get agitated and nervous.

How many cigarettes were smoked in Mad Men? ›

Not surprisingly, cigarette consumption was equally prodigious. AMC counted 942 cigarettes, spread out over almost every character: Don, Roger, Joan, Peggy, Betty and yes, even young Sally. A little less open, sometimes, was the smoking of 18 joints.

What is the main message of Mad Men? ›

One of the core themes of "Mad Men" is identity. The series explores how people present different versions of their true self depending on their surroundings. Everyone is wearing a mask and no one is who they appear to be.

Who is Diana to Don Draper? ›

Diana is Don's twinge, the pain from his old wound personified, his time machine. But both the way she rejects him and the fact that afterward, he returns to his apartment to find it completely empty, are proof that it doesn't matter what Don Draper does or who he sleeps with or where he lives.

Does Don Draper hook up with Joan? ›

Joan's relationship with Don Draper was never a romantic one, but rather a relationship based on trust, respect and mutual admiration for each other. ("Guy Walks Into an Advertising Agency") ("Christmas Waltz").

Why did Don Draper throw up at the funeral? ›

However, his vomiting isn't just indicative of a physical illness, but a psychological one as well. Throughout the course of the series, he's always suppressing his psychological turmoil, but the funeral reveals that he can no longer contain it. Don arrives drunk to the funeral.

What mental illness does Don Draper have? ›

He has symptoms of narcissistic personality disorder and antisocial personality disorder, but he also appears to have an impulse control disorder.

Does Don Draper have a happy ending? ›

In the finale of the series, Don Draper goes to a retreat in order to find peace after all the sufferings his lies have caused to himself and others. All other characters except Do have been given happy endings such as Roger is married to Marie, Joan sets up her own production company, etc.

Why did Betty Draper's hands go numb? ›

She Was Psychologically Struggling

Betty started seeing a therapist in season 1 after she reported that her hands tend to start shaking uncontrollably and that they feel numb. It turned out that the symptom was psychosomatic, which indicates that Betty was in a lot of distress.

What was the cause of Don Draper's death? ›

The cause was cardiac arrest, according to his son, Robert Draper, who was his father's caretaker during the last decade of his life.

What was the trauma and shame of Don Draper? ›

Running from emotions

Flashbacks gave us glimmers into Don's childhood. Fraught with economic and emotional poverty, he was also physically and sexually abused. The most psychologically damaging part, however, was that he had no caring people at home. His suffering was met with indifference and even contempt.

Does Don Draper have imposter syndrome? ›

We've followed Don the most closely, compared to any other character, having access to his troubling childhood during the Great Depression and his traumatic time in Korea, where his great lie of Donald Draper began. This intimate access means we know of Don's crippling imposter syndrome from the beginning.

Is Don Draper a sociopath? ›

No, he is narcissistic as a result of a troubled childhood: he suffered complete lack of affection from his mother and abandonment from his father. He is narcissistic as a result but he understands moral codes, he shows empathy for other people, he does selfless acts and loves his children.

Would Don Draper still be alive today? ›

If he were alive today (and not a fictional person), he would be in his late 80s. Given the damage those decades of cigarettes and alcohol would have done to his body, he probably would not be in great shape. And it is not hard to imagine who would be taking care of him.

What happened to Don Draper at the end? ›

Ending interpretation

The series finale ends with Don Draper meditating on a hilltop and cuts to the iconic 1971 "Hilltop" television advertisem*nt for Coca-Cola, which leaves viewers to interpret whether Don created the ad.

How many girls did Don Draper sleep with? ›

Well, we've done some intensive investigations and have found that over the course of the nine years that Mad Men was set, Don had sex or was intimate with 17 women.

What is the lesson of Don Draper? ›

Don't turn down the chance to move up.

The opportunity to “upgrade” one's life/career should never be passed up, even if it seems as if the scenario is scary or intimidating. After all, not everyone has the option to move up in the world, regardless of how hard they work for what they have.

Did they really smoke in Mad Men? ›

The actors do not smoke real cigarettes. They smoke Ecstacy herbal cigarettes, which are tobacco and nicotine free. Show creator Matthew Weiner said in a New York Times article, "You don't want actors smoking real cigarettes. They get agitated and nervous.

Was Don Draper a good guy? ›

Don is not a very nice person. That is clearly established throughout the entirety of Mad Men - specifically in the scenes that take place at the office. And while Don is the only one to see Peggy for the incredible talent that she is, he also treats her like an underling throughout much of the series.

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