Modern Family: 10 Other People Alex Could Have Ended Up With Other Than Arvin (2024)

By Lynn Gibbs

While Alex and Arvin are the perfect pair, there are many other Modern Family characters who could have had a relationship with the middle Dunphy kid.

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Unlike her sister Haley, Alex Dunphy was more concerned with her schoolwork and higher education than personal relationships. Having a boyfriend or girlfriend would have been a nice way for Alex to blow off some steam but her first love was always science.

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By the end of Modern Family, Alex ended up for Haley’s ex-boyfriend and her former professor, Arvin. And while Alex and Arvin make the perfect pair, Alex had a plethora of potential suitors; she just never realized it because she was too enthralled with school work. If Alex never did go on to date Arvin, who’s to say that she couldn’t have ended up with this list of suitable characters?

Sanjay

Was Sanjay the one who got away? He and Alex competed with each other throughout high school until they realized they had feelings for each other. It was because of their personal need to beat each other at school that they realized they made each otherbetter. The couple planned on breaking up when they attended separate colleges but they ended up staying together and doing long distance. Sadly, Sanjay cheated on Alex and the two broke up. But in an alternate universe, it would have been exciting to see these two get back together after running into each other once they graduated college.

Maisie

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When Haley moved Alex into Caltech, both of the girls met Alex’s roommate Maisie for the first time. Maisie was brilliant like Alex but had the personality of Haley. She was outgoing, bubbly, and a little annoying. However, Alex eventually found a soft side to Maisie and warmed up to her.

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The two enjoyed each other’s company and helped each other study. Falling for each other while studying for class would have been typical for Alex. And seeing as she and Maisie had different personalities, Maisie could loosen Alex up a bit and draw her out of her shell.

Aidan Feldman

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Aidan Feldman only appeared in season 4’s “Arrested,” but his demeanor screamed Alex Dunphy. He was part of Haley’s disciplinary hearingto see if Haley should be allowed back as a student or dismissed from the school entirely. Everything Aidan said to Haley was something that Alex would say. If Alex joined her parents on this field trip to save Haley from jail, she would have met Aidan, and who knows what would have happened next? They would have connected over Haley’s horrible attendance record and compared stories about being the bright one in the family.

Ronnie LaFontaine Jr.

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In the sixth season, the LaFontaines moved in next to the Dunphys, much to the latter's chagrin. The LaFontaines weren’t the Dunphys' idea of dream neighbors but they had to suck it up.

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Unlike his popular sister Tammy, Ronnie Jr. appeared to be a bit of an outcast. When he met Alex, however, he called her “hot stuff,” which caught her off guard. And as it turned out, Ronnie wasn’t the stoner the Dunphys assumed he’d be. In “Knock ‘Em Down,” Claire and Phil found out that Ronnie was a brilliant musician who was attending theprestigious Juilliard in New York. So not only did Ronnie have the bad boy image that Alex seemed attracted to, but he was also brilliant!

Asher

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Asher was Mitch and Cam’s neighbor. He was older than Alex in season5 but he could have been a potential partner forher when she graduated college.

Asher was an environmentalist who judged Mitch and Cam for the amount of water they used for their yard and for always having their air conditioner on. And while Mitch and Cam wanted to prove him wrong, there was no fault in what Asher was saying. His aloof personality and incredible vocabulary mirrored Alex’s. If these two met in the future, there’s no telling the good they could have created from each other’s own knowledge and education.

Dwight

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Dwight was in high school when Alex was a freshman in college but she couldn’t help but be attracted to him. He was Cam’s star athlete on the football team and was staying with the Tucker-Pritchetts for the remaining of the football season.

On Thanksgiving, the two flirted with each other and Cam caught them kissing. And while Alex and Dwightdidn’t have much in common, the tension between them was electric. It would have been good for Alex to fall for someone who was completely different than her in every way butwould still make herproud to show off — unlike Ben and Bill, whom she was embarrassed by).

Daliya

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Daliya was the Delgado-Pritchett’s nanny in season 4. She was far older than Alex at this point in the series but if she was still around by the time Alex graduated college, these two would have been a sweet couple.

For starters, Alex can be a little cold and lack empathy for those she doesn’t understand. Daliya on the other hand was peaceful and encouraged love and understanding. She didn’t end up being Joe’s nanny for long because of Manny’s crush on her but seeing as Gloria and Jay approved of her, she would have fit in nicely with the family. Daliya also would have taught Alex to slow down and appreciate life more.

Jason Darling

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Just as fans hoped Haley would end up with Andy,they dreamed that something wouldhappen between Jason and Alex.

The two met on a college tour of Caltech and immediately hit it off. They quizzed each other on their knowledge of the university and about their love of science.Being from the East Coast, theywished to see each other again. Whether that was at MIT or Caltech, they both admitted to liking each other by the end of the tour. They even became friends on Facebook! Sadly, nothing ever became of Jason and Alex, which was an opportunity missed.

Sienna

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Sienna was the new girl at school in season 5. She became friends with Alex quickly, which made Alex nervous because she didn’t want her to know how unpopular she really was.

As the two hung out at the school fair, it was clear how much Alex cared about what Sienna thought. She chased her around all day acting like anything but herself, all to improve for a girl she thought was cool.Could Alex and Sienna's platonic relationship evolve into something more?

David

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In the second season, Claire and Phil set Haley up with a tutor named David. Ideally, Haley should have stuck with David throughout high school but her attention span wasn’t there.

Based onDavid’s love for school and his charm, he would have made a nice boyfriend for Alex. They were both dedicated to their school work and could have studied together and motivated each other.

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FAQs

When did Alex Dunphy lose her virginity? ›

She lost her virginity at age 17, as she accidentally reveals to her father in "Double Click".

Why does Alex hate Haley? ›

Haley Is Often Very Insensitive

It's towards Andy, Dylan, anyone else in her life — even her parents. Her comments can be extremely cutting, and come with an air of only caring about herself. There are times Alex seems to be very much resent the way Haley treats not only her, but other people in her life.

What illness did Alex have in Modern Family? ›

Alex (Ariel Winter) gets mononucleosis during the summer vacation. Claire (Julie Bowen), Phil (Ty Burrell) and Luke (Nolan Gould) all try to use her condition to their advantage.

Why didn t Haley end up with Andy? ›

Haley & Andy Broke Up Because Of A Job Opportunity

Knowing how badly Andy wanted a job in real estate, Haley knew she couldn't keep him from his dream, especially when she wasn't sure how serious their relationship was or where they'd end up.

Why was Andy written out of Modern Family? ›

Simple two-part answer. First, Adam DeVine's (Andy's) career took off with other roles that made a supporting role in Modern Family not worth his time. Second, Reid Ewing (Dylan) became a fan favorite during his time on the show, making losing Andy not a big deal.

What is the age gap between Alex and Haley? ›

Ariel Winter as Alex Dunphy

Ariel Winter plays high-achieving brainiac Alex Dunphy, who is three years younger than her older sister, Haley, and therefore thirteen at the show's start.

Who does Haley lose her virginity to in Modern Family? ›

In the car, Alex accidentally reveals that Haley had sexual intercourse with Dylan (Reid Ewing), and Phil is shocked. Haley is angry with Alex and feels guilty when her dad implies how disappointed he is.

Why is Haley not in season 11? ›

One fan tweeted at the 29-year-old actress, writing: “why has Haley been missing from so many episodes of 'Modern Family' this season?” Hyland retweeted the inquiry, writing, “Apparently I've been busy with the twins.”

Why did Alex from Modern Family gain weight? ›

You're a horrible role model. What are you showing people? You got so fat on TV, now you look so fat.” Winter explained that her weight gain in high school was due to antidepressants that she had been taking.

What is Claire Dunphy's diagnosis? ›

While they are getting ready to move on to the hotel room, Claire faints and they end up in the hospital instead. The diagnosis, Wolff–Parkinson–White syndrome, requires Claire to "take it easy".

Who has ADHD in Modern Family? ›

While Phil demonstrates his ADHD (narrated in voice-over as Alex (Ariel Winter) tries to convince her mother Luke suffers from the condition), Luke surpasses his mother's low expectations and completes the project.

Who stole Alex's first kiss in Modern Family? ›

Later, Alex confronts Jimmy and tells him that he "stole" her first kiss. He says that he doesn't want it and he precedes to give it back by kissing her again. She says that she doesn't want it now and "gives it back to him" by kissing him passionately before she leaves confused at what she has done.

Why did Haley and Dylan end up together? ›

Haley had a plethora of love interests on Modern Family and chose Dylan over Arvin and Andy, proving how much she loved him. But is Haley in love with Dylan? It could be argued that she chose him because he's familiar. She didn't need to try to be someone she wasn't and was free to be herself.

Who is the boy that kissed Alex in Modern Family? ›

Matthew David Gumley is an American actor who has appeared on the TV series Drake & Josh, Law & Order: Special Victims Unit, and Psych. He portrayed Jimmy Scrivano, the boy whom Alex Dunphy ends sharing her first kiss with, in "Dude Ranch".

Who is Alex's boyfriend in Modern Family Season 6 episode 9? ›

Alex (Ariel Winter) tells everyone that she has a boyfriend, Alec (John Karna), and while Phil (Ty Burrell) is happy with the news, Claire (Julie Bowen) and Haley (Sarah Hyland) are convinced that Alex is lying and the boyfriend is imaginary.

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