Netflix's Someone Great Makes A Case For The Breakup Rom-Com (2024)

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The very first scene in Someone Great, writer-director Jennifer Kaytin Robinson’s debut Netflix feature, is a visual feast of blue, purple, and soft pink lighting. Jenny Young (Gina Rodriguez), an NYU sophom*ore, is carrying boyfriend Nate Davis (Lakeith Stanfield) on her back as they bask in the glow of a perfect concert, on their way to meet their friends at a local bar. They’re young, they’re attractive, they’re sickeningly, glowingly in love.

It’s not until moments later, when we see Jenny drinking from an open bottle on a subway platform, pouring her heart out to a stranger, that we realize that first scene was a glimpse into her memory of a just-ended, long-term relationship. In hindsight, things are always more beautiful than they actually were. We gloss over the fights, the viciously passive aggressive comments, the disappointments, and the letdowns.

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In many ways, that’s the central tenet of Someone Great: Learning to let go of the desire to return to that Instagram-filtered past, and instead appreciating the good times for what they were, even while acknowledging the bad. As my colleague Kaitlin Reilly pointed up in her write-up of the film’s trailer, most Netflix rom-coms (including To All The Boys I've Loved Before, Set It Up, and The Kissing Booth) focus on a couple coming together, or surmounting every obstacle to get back together. Someone Great instead chooses to hone in on a woman’s journey to self-accepting singledom.

As we learn from Jenny’s subway rant, the primary reason she and Nate ended their nine-year love story is because she got her dream job covering music for Rolling Stone, which required her to move from New York to San Francisco. He’s unwilling to do the long distance thing, which seems like a dick move — but as we peel back the rose-tinted memories, it’s clear things have been rocky for a while. This was just the final straw.

Jenny’s heartbreak is only half of this film’s plot, however. What makes Something Great, well, so great, is that it is both rom-com and female-buddy comedy. In between shots of leftover green juice mixed with Champagne, Jenny decides she needs a full-day blowout with best-friends Blair (Brittany Snow) and Erin (DeWanda Wise — cast her in everything!) — one last party before she moves away, and a way to stop constant thoughts of Nate swirling around in her brain. What follows is a debauched Hangover-style romp through New York City as Jenny, Erin, and Blair seek out exclusive tickets to Neon Classic, a showcase concert making its one-night comeback on the very day they most need it.

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A former music writer, Robinson hand-picked the soundtrack, which includes bangers like Post Precious’s “Timebomb,” Lizzo’s “Truth Hurts,” and a truly inspired boozy getting ready montage set to Lil’ Kim’s “The Jump Off.”

Jenny is a new challenge for Rodriguez, who’s been playing the more straight-laced Jane Villanueva on Jane The Virgin, when she’s not wielding a machine gun in a drug cartel thriller Miss Bala, or holding her scientists colleagues prisoner in sci-fi nightmare Annihilation. She’s fun, and real, and refreshing — a woman of color at the center of a story long-dominated by white women. And rather than having her as a token display of diversity, the film instead makes her Latinx identity an integral part of her character. Likewise, Erin’s budding relationship with Leah, another woman of color, isn’t used as a flat queer character trait. It’s a substantial character arc.

Overall, the film paints a relatable portrait of women in their late 20s realizing their plans and priorities have shifted, readjusting expectations, but also having a wildly enjoyable time. Robinson, the creative force behind the much-missed cult show Sweet/Vicious, has assembled a mostly female crew, a decision that resonates throughout the film’s tone and aesthetics, from costume (Stacey Battat), to cinematography (Autumn Eakin), production design (Lisa Myers), and editing (Mollie Goldstein).

But it’s the characters that really hit this one home. They feel lived in, like honest-to-god human women that you could actually just find in your contacts. They have a past together, referenced through flashbacks, college playlists, passing references, and Jenny and Erin’s constant demand for “Bad Blair,” who has been MIA since Blair shed her wild days for a job as an event planner who uses words like “hashtag rollout.” Snow kills it as the basic uptight twentysomething letting loose for the first time in a while, while Wise proves once more that she should be a rom-com staple — she has the emotional range and comedic chops to be more than a supporting character.

As for the men, they’re not one-dimensional either. Stanfield shares eye-melting chemistry with Rodriguez, his enthusiasm and support for her throughout their relationship hammering home the fact that sometimes good people just aren’t the right fit. He’s not a bad guy, he’s just not right for her anymore. Same goes for Peter Vack’s Matt, Jenny’s former college fuccboi crush who proves he too has changed over time. Only Alex Moffatt as Blair’s married-by-30 standby choice, the kind of guy who deep cleans his girlfriend’s apartment without being asked, feels like a true caricature. (But hey, it works.)

Robinson’s script is sharp, and fast-paced, delivered with gleeful zest by her protagonists. She also knows her audience, and the dialogue is full of Millennial™ references, from Harry Potter house horoscopes to Greta Gerwig's Lady Bird. In fact, those, rather than the actual plot, are what will likely date the film a couple of years from now. Female friendship, self-acceptance, and drunken bodega karaoke? Those things are timeless.

Netflix's Someone Great Makes A Case For The Breakup Rom-Com (2024)

FAQs

Netflix's Someone Great Makes A Case For The Breakup Rom-Com? ›

The guy, Nate Davis (Lakeith Stanfield), breaks up with her because he doesn't want to be in a long-distance relationship.

Why did Nate break up with Jenny Someone Great? ›

The guy, Nate Davis (Lakeith Stanfield), breaks up with her because he doesn't want to be in a long-distance relationship.

Is Someone Great a rom com? ›

Someone Great is a 2019 American romantic comedy film written and directed by Jennifer Kaytin Robinson (in her directorial debut). The film stars Gina Rodriguez, Brittany Snow, DeWanda Wise, Lakeith Stanfield, and Peter Vack.

Do Nate and Jenny end up together in Someone Great? ›

In the end, as hopefully, you've guessed, Jenny and Nate do not get back together.

Is Someone Great worth watching? ›

This break-up film is great because it has everything: it's a little bit sad, as it should be, but also has funny moments, portrays real situations and friendships, shows personal growth and the main focus is NOT to replace the man for another - let's face it, this would've ended differently if it'd been made in the ...

Why is Nate his biggest regret? ›

From what we've seen, he doesn't feel loved by the people in his life, and he doesn't genuinely love them back, a sentiment Cal can relate to, at least in the case of his family ("I'm not allowed to form an emotional connection, and I'm an emotional guy," he says in his monologue).

Does Jenny ever get the letter from Nate? ›

Just as she goes to walk away, the light is turned on and everyone sees what Vanessa has to offer. Nate asks Jenny if she did that to Vanessa, and she admits she did. Nate is shocked by what Jenny has done and tells her that he is glad she didn't get the letter because she isn't the person he thought she was anyway.

What is the biggest rom-com of all time? ›

My Big Fat Greek Wedding

How old is Gina Rodriguez? ›

What was the point of the movie Someone Great? ›

Someone Great ends up being about owning your own self-worth, striving for the best (whether that be with a relationship or a job), and also how you can move forward even through times of great uncertainty.

Does Jenny ever sleep with Nate? ›

After this fiasco, the two don't reunite until the final book, in which Nate goes to a party with Jenny rather than Blair or Serena. In I Will Always Love You, Jenny eventually reunites with and loses her virginity to Nate, and they date seriously for a while until Jenny pursues Blair's younger brother, Tyler Waldorf.

Is Jenny in love with Nate? ›

Overview. Nate and Jenny become friends during the show's first season and this leads to romantic tension between the two that results in them getting together briefly in season two. During the third season, Jenny continues to crush on Nate despite him dating her stepsister, Serena van der Woodsen.

Who does Nate end up with in the books? ›

Blair attends Yale University, the school of her dreams, after graduating from high school. Throughout the series, she has an on-off relationship with Nate Archibald, whom she always imagined marrying. At the end of the series, Nate admits he loves her, and always will.

Is Someone Great a lgbtq movie? ›

“Someone Great's” inclusion of an explicit queer relationship through an LGBT main character and side character are features that should be recognized and appreciated.

Can a 12 year old watch Someone Great? ›

I think that this movie is a really good example of what you want your life to look like and to give kids a glimpse of what your life could be or what is could also be. I think that you should definitely watch this with your kids. I think that maybe 12 and up is a good age.

Will there be a sequel to Someone Great? ›

At this point, it's unknown if Netflix will order a sequel to Someone Great but that doesn't mean there won't be one. If one thing has been proven true, it's that there's no real time limit for a re-boot, a re-make, or sequel. When the people want it is when network execs decide to make it.

What does Nate say to Jenny in Someone Great? ›

He tells Jenny that he's sorry and that he will do whatever it takes for them to stay together — be it him having to move with her or trying long distance. Nate tells Jenny that even if it doesn't work out, at least they gave it a shot. It's all Jenny ever wanted to hear.

Why did they break up Someone Great? ›

Jenny's new job requires a move across the country, and Nate decides to break it off rather than deal with dating long distance.

Does Libby have a crush on Nate in better nate than ever? ›

There's even a little subplot dealing with Libby's crush on Nate. That particular story thread could have been a mess, but the movie did a good job of handling Libby's feelings for Nate. She understood that Nate “wasn't like that”, and that her crush on someone like Nate shouldn't harm the two being best friends.

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