Scorpio’s Love Language: What It Is & How You Can Speak It (2024)

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Discover how your intense, private Scorpio loves and needs to feel loved

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Last Updated: March 18, 2024Fact Checked

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The 5 Love Languages is a framework by Dr. Gary Chapman that describes the 5 different ways a person prefers to show and receive love.[1] Although love languages aren’t strictly astrological, it’s still totally valid to wonder which ones appeal most to your Scorpio beau. We’ve interviewed pro astrologer Angel Eyedealism to get the lowdown on everything Scorpio, so that you can be in the know.

Things You Should Know

  • Physical touch and quality time are Scorpio’s two main love languages.
  • Show love to a Scorpio through physical touch with simple acts like hugging, kissing, and/or holding hands.
  • Demonstrate love through quality time by respecting your partner’s desires for both intimacy and privacy.

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What is Scorpio’s love language?

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    Scorpio’s love languages are physical touch and quality time. Expert astrologer Angel Eyedealism explains how “vulnerability is a cherished prize for a Scorpio. Without vulnerability, there is no intimacy—and that’s why Scorpio is the sign of intimacy, because they like to lay everything bare.” With this in mind, any sort of physical touch can be a great way to show the Scorpio in your life how loved and appreciated they are.

    • This love language spans all types of physical affection, like cuddling, kissing, hugging, and even holding hands.[2]
    • Eyedealism also notes how Scorpios have “an obsessive need for privacy.” The “quality time” love language could be a way to respect this as you strike a balance between spending quality time with your partner and giving them quality time by themselves.
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    Show a Scorpio some love with one-on-one time and physical touch. Set aside some time during the week for just you and the Scorpio in your life. Shower them with plenty of physical affection while you’re together, like cuddles, hugs, and kisses. If the mood is right, feel free to suggest something a little more intimate.

    • Quality time can be just about any activity that gives you personal, meaningful time with your Scorpio. Cooking a delicious meal together, playing board games, or enjoying a home movie night together are all great ways to enjoy each other’s company.
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Love Languages of Other Signs

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    Aries: Physical touch, words of affirmation Active and energetic, it’s no surprise that this sign enjoys to be loved in physical ways, whether that’s hand-holding, kissing, or something more intimate. Aries also treasures words of affirmation, and loves it when their partner acknowledges their hard work or offers simple words of love.

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    Taurus: Giving gifts, physical touch Physical and sensual, Taurus loves to immerse themselves in activities related to the five senses—so, it’s a given that they love and appreciate all types of physical touch and affection within a relationship (e.g., hand-holding, hugging, cuddling, etc.). It also makes sense that Taurus enjoys getting gifts from their partner, whether it’s a coffee from their favorite coffeeshop or a thoughtful memento on an anniversary.

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    Gemini: Words of affirmation, acts of service Known for their chatty and social energy, it’s understandable that Gemini especially appreciates words of affirmation (whether they’re a specific compliment or a meaningful “I love you”). Gemini also appreciates helpful and caring gestures, like taking out the trash or making dinner one evening.

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    Cancer: Quality time, words of affirmation The thoughtful and nurturing Cancer deeply cares for the people in their life and feels most loved and appreciated when they get to spend quality time with their partner. They also appreciate words of affirmation, like being reminded how loved and capable they are.

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    Leo: Gift giving, acts of service Hard-working and caring, the regal Leo feels most loved and appreciated when they’re given meaningful gifts and tokens by their partner. Acts of service also mean a lot to them, like when their partner makes them lunch or puts away the dishes after dinner.

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    Virgo: Acts of service, words of affirmation As one of the most responsible signs of the zodiac, it’s understandable that Virgo especially appreciates acts of service from their partner. Virgo also cherishes words of affirmation, and loves to be validated and reminded of how appreciated they are.

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    Libra: Acts of service, quality time A true romantic at heart, Libra adores spending quality time with their special someone, whether that’s binging a TV show together or planning special weekly date nights. They also appreciate acts of service, and love when their partner goes out of their way to be helpful.

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    Sagittarius: Physical touch, gift giving It’s no shocker that the adventurous and spontaneous Sagittarius feels most loved and appreciated through spontaneous gift-giving. They’re also a big fan of physical touch, and love receiving different kinds of physical affection and intimacy from their partner.

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    Capricorn: Quality time, acts of service As one of the most studious and hard-working signs out there, it makes sense that Capricorn feels most loved and appreciated by acts of services performed for them. Capricorn also deeply appreciates spending quality time with their partner away from the daily grind of their work routine.

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    Aquarius: Acts of service, words of affirmation Free-spirited Aquarius feels the most loved and valued through acts of service, like tidying up the kitchen or cleaning out the litter box. Aquarius also really values words of affirmation, and likes to be reminded of how loved they are.

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    Pisces: Words of affirmation, quality time Empathetic and caring Pisces feels especially loved by a partner who showers them with caring and affirming words, even if it’s just a plain “I love you so much.” They also love it when their partner makes intentional gestures to spend quality time with them, like planning a special date.

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What are the 5 love languages?

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  1. 1. Words of affirmation

    Words of affirmation are a verbal way to let your partner know how much you love and appreciate them. Acknowledging your partner’s hard work, thanking them for all that they do, or even just saying “I love you” are a few simple ways to appreciate someone with this love language.[3]

    2. Acts of service

    Acts of service are a physical way to show your partner that you love and care about them. These gestures can be small or large.[4]

    3. Giving gifts

    Giving gifts involves giving your partner a physical token to demonstrate your love for them. Some people find these physical gestures to be a really valuable and concrete way to receive affection, since intention and thought are put into the gift.[5]

    4. Quality time

    Quality time involves spending lots of one-on-one time with your partner where you’re both focused on one another. Some people feel especially loved and appreciated when they have their partner’s complete and total attention.[6]

    5. Physical touch

    Physical touch refers to acts of physical affection—some people feel especially loved and appreciated when they’re showered with these physical gestures.[7]

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      • At the end of the day, a person’s star sign doesn’t carry much weight when it comes to their preferences in a relationship. It’s best to just ask your partner what their love language is—if they don’t know, they can always take wikiHow’s Love Language Quiz to find out!

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      This article was co-authored by Angel Eyedealism and by wikiHow staff writer, Janice Tieperman. Angel Eyedealism is an Astrologer and Performance Artist based in the Lower East Side of Manhattan. With nearly three decades of astrology experience, Angel specializes in relocation astrology and astrocartography. Eyedealism has been featured in numerous media outlets such as Vogue, Cosmopolitan, The Atlantic, The Washington Post, Refinery29, NBC, MTV, Showtime, and Bravo. Angel aims to help others through a straightforward, kind, and humorous astrological lens, utilizing her entertainment and singing skills for performance art astrology readings. This article has been viewed 9,396 times.

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      Scorpio’s Love Language: What It Is & How You Can Speak It (2024)

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      Scorpio’s Love Language: What It Is & How You Can Speak It? ›

      Scorpio Love Language

      What is the Scorpios love language? ›

      Physical touch and quality time are Scorpio's two main love languages. Show love to a Scorpio through physical touch with simple acts like hugging, kissing, and/or holding hands. Demonstrate love through quality time by respecting your partner's desires for both intimacy and privacy.

      How do Scorpios show they love you? ›

      No matter what you are doing, if a Scorpio man is in love with you, he will pay attention to you every time you want to talk to him or are doing something. You never have to worry about him straying away from you or having wandering eyes. He will maintain eye contact whenever you are talking.

      How do you express love to a Scorpio? ›

      Affectionate gestures like hugs, kisses, and cuddles on the couch are great ways to build intimacy and show love to your Scorpio man. Look for ways to create more emotional intimacy as well! For example, having deep conversations with him can go a long way toward building that connection.

      What is the best way to communicate with a Scorpio? ›

      To impress a Scorpio, gently question him about his emotional wellbeing. If you sense a shift in his mood, mention it. Show him that you're emotionally intuitive and comfortable holding emotional conversations, and he'll find that totally crushworthy.

      How do Scorpio like to be kissed? ›

      Take a deep dive into the depths of passion in order to kiss a Scorpio. A passionate, introspective kiss has the potential to open the door to the profound emotional intimacy that they are looking for.

      What do Scorpios do when they fall in love? ›

      Once you have caught their attention, they will do everything to make you theirs. Once they get there, Scorpios tend to stay in love and in partnership connections for a long time. However, they are also very secretive and mysterious.

      What do Scorpios need most in a relationship? ›

      Scorpios crave intensity in their relationships, and they usually know right away if they're interested or not. They don't date just for the sake of dating, and they would rather develop deeper intimacy with someone.

      How does a Scorpio make love? ›

      Scorpios are emotional lovers and fiery ones in bed. It's hard to match their energy because they are very sexually active and zealous. They also have deep sexual desires and fantasies. Numerologist Sidhharrth S Kumaar tells us that “Scorpios are a passionate sign and this reflects in their sexual life as well.

      How do Scorpios like to be touched? ›

      Try making soft physical contact with him, like a touch on the arm, hand, or back. Also remember to not give up too much information on yourself right up front. Make him work for it instead. Scorpios love discovering new things about people, so the more you hold back the more he'll want to chase.

      Who is Scorpios true love? ›

      The absolute best match for a Scorpio is fellow water sign Cancer. There's natural compatibility between signs of the same element, and both signs are huge on trust and intimacy.

      What are Scorpios attracted to? ›

      A Scorpio woman is attracted to a man who is confident, mysterious, and sexually passionate. To attract a Scorpio woman, take her on fun adventures and treat her like she's a true priority in your life. The most compatible zodiac signs for a Scorpio woman are Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Pisces, and Capricorn.

      Who will Scorpio fall in love with? ›

      Which signs are Scorpios most compatible with? Generally speaking, Scorpios will find their best match with fellow water signs (Cancer and Pisces) or earth signs (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn), Thomas tells PEOPLE.

      How do you get a Scorpio to think about you? ›

      How to Make a Scorpio Man Obsessed with You
      1. Make him chase you a little.
      2. Have deep talks about interesting subjects.
      3. Give him compliments.
      4. Let him contact you first.
      5. Be honest to build his trust.
      6. Accept him without judgement.
      7. Try not to focus on your appearance too much.
      8. Live your own life.

      What to text a Scorpio? ›

      Keep your texts short and make them enticing. Ask him about himself and the things he enjoys to start an intellectually stimulating conversation. Or, text him dark and sarcastic jokes to make him laugh. To pique his interest, send him playful, suggestive texts.

      What is the secret of a Scorpio? ›

      As they are loyal and seek honesty from people, they take ample time to get along with anyone they meet. You will never know their secrets or feelings that easily, until and unless you are really close to them. Scorpio people are not all party animals or extroverts, they are very reserved.

      What is a Scorpios love match? ›

      Which signs are Scorpios most compatible with? Generally speaking, Scorpios will find their best match with fellow water signs (Cancer and Pisces) or earth signs (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn), Thomas tells PEOPLE.

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