This one tip will make coloring your kid's hair hella easier. | Cool Mom Picks (2024)

I was so proud of myself, the first time my daughter wanted to color her hair at home and asked for a pink stripe in her hair. I did all the research (what’s easiest, safest, least messy ) and finally settled on dyeing it with…Kool-Aid.

Good gravy, what a mistake!

It burned, believe it or not, and just as bad, it hardlyleft behind any color.

Then, I discovered one simple way to dye my kid’s hair at home, turning herinto her version of a 21st century punk without the tears:

Dye the ends of the haironly.

Here’s why.

Beforeyou can successfully dye your kid’shair the exact color they want, you are likelyto have to bleach it, unless your kid has light hair, or you’re willing to go with a more subtle version of that blue or pink. And bleach, as we all know, is highly potent and corrosive, and getting it anywhere near the scalp (let alone the eyes, eek) is nothing I’d encourage you to do with younger kids — no matter what you’ve seen in your kindergartener’s class.

This is all to say thatbleach was always a non-starter for us, until I figured out that Icould easily and painlessly dye the ends of her hair only.

Plus, ifthe hair dries out from thosechemicals, just snip off the dead ends, and start anew.

But hey, you’re the parent and the decision is up to you.

So if you’re all in on the colored tips for your child’s hair, here are my tips (ha) for getting it done.

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An easy step-by-step guideto coloring your child’s hair at home

1. Choose a hair color brand.

Hair Color Option A:

After the Kool-Aid debacle, we settled on more traditional hair dye kits. I’d recommend starting with something likeSplat Hair Color Complete Kit. I like this brand (despite their weirdly sexy color nameslike Lusty Purple and Pink Fetish) because they have tons of punky shades, and the box includes everything you need: bleach kit, hair dye, and gloves.

Although the gloves suck, so I buy a pair of good ones andreuse them.

Hair ColorOption B:

Liz,whose daughter has gone with bright pink endsfor the last few years, has been really happy with Special Effects Atomic Pinkand highly recommends.

The results are very vibrant on her light brown hair, as you can see below… and this is entirely without bleach. It’s not quite as “atomic”as if the ends were bleached first, but it is a good alternative if you’re worried about bleach. And while the dye is called semi-permanent, there’s so much pigment in the color, it lasts a good several months — and even when it fades to a paler pink it looks pretty cool.

She also ended up with about a half a bottle left, meaning you get two whole color sessions out of one bottle. Or in her case, one session…and one for a BFF who wanted to go twinsies.

A huge happy birthday to our girls ❤️ One day, one year apart, celebrating together since they were tots. ?

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Pro tip: If you’recoloring your kid’s hair a bright color — as your own colorist may have warned you at some point (ahem) — be awarethat pool chemicalswill utterly destroy it. We never dye hair before vacation, or at the startof summer if we know we’ll be in and out of pools a lot.

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2. Lay out all your materials…and prepare forStain-o-geddon.

Things you are going to need to dip-dye the ends of your child’s hair:

-2 Ziploc bags
-2rubber bands
–Magic Erasers (they’re the only thing I’ve found thatcan get rid of sink or tub stains)
-Hand soap
-Conditioning rinsse
-Old towel that you don’t mind getting bleach and color dye on.
-Cheap dark towel for the bathroom counter and floor
-Adult-sized old t-shirt
-Optional garbage bag
-Rubber gloves
-Hair dryer
-White vinegar
-Your hair dye kit (of course)

You may have noticed lotsof cleaning stuff inthis list, huh?

Heed my warnings:Nothing stains like bright hair color.

It somehow manages to be not permanent in hair, and yet super permanent on everything else. (Sorry, pillowcases!) So please takemy advice and buy some cheap dark colored towels for the bathroom counterand floor, because the staining is real, folks. (You can also use those towels over your child’spillow at night, especially in the early weeks.)

Also,I have my kid wear an old black t-shirt of mine while we’re coloring her hair, so she’s about as covered up as she can be and I don’t care if the shirt ends up withAqua Rushcolor drips all over it.

Pro tip:Cut a slit at the bottom of a garbage bag and pop it over her head. Voila! A makeshift waterproof salon cape that also protects her clothes.

3. Bleachthe ends of the hair only.

Be sure to put on thoseglovesbefore you mix up the bleach that comes with the hair dye kit, thenapply itonly to the lower half of her hair.

How high to go with thebleach is up to you; between 4–6inches seems to be pretty manageable for my daughter’s long hairand still looks exciting. But some really like the subtlety of 1-2 inch tips and that’s cool too.

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Next, (while wearing your gloves!) bundle up the bleached hair, stuff it in the Ziploc bag, and use the rubber band to cinch it all around.

The box will give you an idea of how long to leave in the bleach, but when it looks blondish (try to avoid Madonna Ice Blonde here), rinse it out and wash hair thoroughly.

Remember the gloves!

(Did I mention the gloves?)

Pro tip:I’d strongly suggest you wrapthatold towel tightly around her shoulders and neck during this process to make extra sure thatbleach doesn’t come in contact with your child’sskin. Especially if thehair isn’t quite as long as my own daughter’s.

4.Blow dry.

You want to get that hair nice and dry so it can take the pigment of the semi-permanent color.

Get it allll dry. Don’t cheat!

5. Dip dye the ends.

Awesome, right?

Now, you’re going to repeat the process but with yourhair color instead of bleach.

Be sure to saturate every strand of hair; you’ll use far more dye than you’d think to get the color your kid wants.

Nowrepeat the whole Ziploc and rubber band thing. Whilethe dyed hair is bundled up in there, your kid can basically go about her life at home for a few hours and totally forget her hair is turning bubblegum pink. Or purple!

Pro tip:I reallysuggest — and parents who have gone through this agree with me — to checkthe directions onthe package, and then (since you aredyeing the ends of the hair only, and aren’t dyeing near the scalp) leave the color on foran extrahourif you want to go brighter. Because, for punk hair, the brighter the better, right?

I’ve left the dye in the ends of my daughter’shair for up to 3 hours, and the result was stunning.

But hey, even when it fades that’s cool too. All you have to do now is just re-dye the bleached part, skipping all the previous steps. Use the same color or choose something totally new! Actually we keep a whole rainbow of N’Rage Semi-Permanent Hair colors on hand for touch-ups or because when you’re a tween, one day blue will be the new pink and orange will be the new blue.

Pro tip 2:Make sure you dye the hair up above the bleach line just a tiny bit. You don’t want to end up witha weird white line across the back of the hair where you missed the color! Itwill fade in with the natural hair above the bleach line pretty naturally and look great.

6. Rinse the hair and rock out!

When it’s time to rinse thehair, you want to do it so thoroughlythat the water is running pretty clear. No shampoo!

Afterward, do a quick douse of the colored ends of the hair in white vinegar, and rinse with water. Aswith Easter eggs, the vinegarhelps the hair coloradhere to the hair shaft better.

Finally,condition (yes, you can use conditioner — one for color-treated hair might be a worthwhile investment), rinse, and dry.

Easy!

Pro tip: Of course colors will continue to run, even after repeated shampoo and drying, so don’t shampoo hair with every shower; then give it a few weeks of washing before letting your kid sleepon hotel whites or wear an expensive white graduation dress. (Editor’s Note: Been there. Sigh. -Liz)

Also keep in mind the dye will leach into bathwatersostick with showers for a while.

Pro tip 2: If you want to hurry up thisprocess, or go a little lower-maintenance with the upkeep, you can opt to keep shampoo off the ends of the hair for a couple of weeks and keep hair super vibrant. Then, when it is time to shampoo the colored ends, washa whole bunch of times (the sink is a good bet) until the water runs pretty clear.

You’ll fade the vibrancyfor sure— though a good quality dye should still leave plenty of color — but you also won’t have to deal with destroying the linens at summer camp or Grandma’s house.

But no matter which route you go, stick with the dark towels! This is a must.

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