As your child grows, they will begin to learn to dress themselves.
Dressing themselves helps build confidence and important lifelong skills.
Your child may show interest in getting dressed by taking off their clothes, such as their socks or hat.
You can help your child learn to get dressed by playing dress-up and praising their attempts to dress themselves.
Why should my toddler learn how to dress?
Dressing and undressing are lifelong skills that start in childhood.
Learning how to put clothes and shoes on is important for your toddler's development. Being able to dress themselves can help them feel a sense of achievement, and develop their:
Dressing also helps build language skills and body awareness. Your toddler will learn how to recognise and name:
different items of clothing
the colours of clothes
where clothes go on their body
When will my toddler show interest in dressing themselves?
There's no set age when children become interested in learning how to dress. Your toddler may be keen to dress themselves and change multiple times a day. Or, they may not seem to care at all.
Most toddlers start with taking clothes and shoes off before they learn how to put them back on. They will often take off easy-to-remove articles like:
hats
shoes
socks
As they get older, your child will build more complex skills, such as choosing the right clothes for the weather.
How quickly your child learns to dress themselves depends on:
how interested they are
how much practice they've had
1 year old
At around 12 months old, your child may try to help while you are dressing them. They may:
hold their arms up for tops and jumpers and push their arms through sleeves
hold their feet out for socks and shoes
They may also start taking their shoes, socks and hats off.
At this age, your toddler may still need a little help from you.
How can I help my toddler learn to dress themselves?
Before your child can dress themselves, they must have some skills. You can help them develop these skills by giving them toys and playing games such as:
'Simon says', to learn the names of body parts
jigsaw puzzles, to practise fine motor skills needed to do up zippers and buttons
You can also introduce your child to dressing by providing dress up clothes. Dressing-up helps your child develop dressing skills, while also being fun and creative.
Bigger, looser clothes are the easiest clothes for your child to learn with. Give your toddler clothing that is easy to get in and out of, such as elasticized pants, and simple t-shirts.
There are some other things you can do to help your child learn to dress themselves:
Encourage your toddler to sit on the floor while they learn to dress, to help them balance.
When your toddler is learning, give them some options of what to wear. This can help them to feel less overwhelmed, and prevent tantrums.
Give your child tops with an image on the front, to help them learn front from back.
Put clothing in a pile in the order they need to go on, with underwear at the top and pants at the bottom.
Talk your toddler through what they need to do, such as "Push your head through this hole" and so on.
Name what you see, such as, "Good job putting your arms through the sleeves".
Let your toddler do what they can, then help them with the harder tasks.
It's important not to rush your toddler — they will need time and practice to learn. If they make a mistake, let them recognise where they've gone wrong and help them fix it.
Put a mirror where your child gets dressed, so they can watch what is happening, and fix any mistakes.
Remember to praise your toddler's attempts at dressing.
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Maneuvering snaps, buttons and clips helps strengthen your tot's fine motor skills. Using their tiny fingers for dressing improves their hand-eye coordination and finger dexterity, says Vierheller. And their hands get stronger the more they practice.
According to the communication checklist from the American Speech-Language-Hearing Association, children typically start nodding their head for yes and shaking their head for no by 13 to 18 months old. Some toddlers may even answer verbally at this age.
The first big dressing milestone is having your child remove their socks. Children should be mastering this skill by 1 year old. This skill not only gives your child some newfound independence but creates hand-eye connection leading to hand-eye coordination in the future.
- Getting dressed requires Motor Planning, Fine Motor Skills, Gross Motor Skills, Spatial Awareness and Cognitive Skills such as Sequencing and Problem-Solving. - Getting dressed can be frustrating for any child, but can be even more frustrating for a child with a disability.
Numerous studies suggest that our attire can significantly affect our cognitive processes and the way we perceive ourselves. For instance, wearing formal clothes is often associated with feelings of power and competency, while casual attire can make one feel relaxed and at ease.
taking care of ourselves encompasses a lot no doubt, and dressing up is just one aspect. however, it's an important one. taking some time in the morning to pick out a well put-together outfit, get ready, and then get dressed goes a long way to setting the spirit and pace for the rest of the day.
Either way, your toddler thinks they have a choice. Teach your toddler other responses. One of the reasons toddlers say "no" so much is they don't know very many words. Help your toddler expand their vocabulary by turning "no" into a game: "What's the opposite of 'no'?" (That one's easy.)
Receptive language skills (or understanding skills) that are typically learned by 2.5 years old include: answering simple wh- questions, answering some yes or no questions, and following directions during familiar activities.
3-Year-Old: A 3-year-old should be able to answer more complex questions and should be starting to ask basic “who”, “what”, “where” and “why” questions. 4-Year-Old: A 4-year-old should be able to ask and answer many questions, if not all question types.
If you think about it, dressing is a good arena in which to assert one's independence, something your child is learning to do right now. And when a toddler knows their parent wants them to do something urgently, that's exactly when they're going to resist doing that very thing.
Setup a dressing area with a full body length mirror. It's important for the child to look at themselves, observe or recognize what could be out of place. It's also helpful to add a child-sized stool or cube chair. Sitting makes it easier to put on underwear, pants, and socks.
Self- dressing helps develop independence, responsibility, and cooperation. Look for the following features: Front openings so the child can see them. Big buttons (about the size of a nickel) and buttonholes.
By ages 4 or 5 most young children are beginning to fully dress themselves but they still need help with some buttons and zippers occasionally. Children this age are also typically capable of putting on their own accessories, including belts and shoes.
Let your toddler look through the pages of their favourite book while you get their socks and shoes on. Keep your toddler interested by asking if they can point out their favourite characters, or find different objects in the pictures. With a bit of luck, they'll be dressed without even noticing.
You can start once your child is around the age of 3 to 4 years old. If dressing is hard for your child, scale it for them and make it slightly easier! For example, teach your child to sit down while dressing.
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