Here’s our two cents: When it comes to hugging when you first meet someone, there are a few ways to avoid a faux pas. First, try to rely on context clues and the other person’s vibe. If you’re in a work setting, for example, hold off. If you’re somewhere more social, but the woman you’re being introduced to is keeping her distance, maybe start off with a handshake or wave. But if she comes sashaying toward you, arms open (and you’re on board), hug away. Also take the temperature of the room you’re in. If no one else in the room is hugging, it’s probably not the time to hug. Finally, be aware of cultural guidelines around hugging—especially if you’re traveling outside the U.S. (which, in our experience, is very generous with physical contact).
In general, use your best judgement, but don’t be too offended if your attempt at an embrace is met with the opposite of that old line: “Sorry, I’m not really a hugger.”
