Below is a detailed outline and description that will give you a better understanding of the purpose for each line of your wedding invitation, as well as some important things to remember for your other wedding stationery items.
HOST LINE
The host line indicates the host of the event and who is issuing the invitation. Traditionally, this role was filled by the bride’s parents, but today most couples host the wedding themselves or with their families. No matter who is issuing the invitation, there’s a host line format fit for their invite.
REQUEST LINE
The request line plays the most important role in the invitation: it actually invites the guest to the event! It’s important to keep in mind that the wording of the request line changes depending on whether the venue of your event is religious or not. Invitations to events held at a religious venue use the phrase “request the honor of your presence”; secular events use the phrase “request the pleasure of your company”. While this is a tradition that is still widely used today, more and more couples are choosing toforegothe conventional phrasing and make use of more fun and celebratory request lines.
EVENT LINE
Working with the request line, the event line lets the guest know to what event they are being invited to. This line specifies the type of event (marriage, reception, or anything else) and traditionally, the relationship of the host to the bride or groom, but it’s no longer necessary to include this relation.
BRIDE LINE
Following the event line is the bride line. Wedding invitation etiquette states the bride’s name comes first. Depending on the formality of invite, you might or might not need to include the bride’s title, middle name, or last name. (This is a well-established practice, but the wedding is about the bride and groom— we think you should write the bride’s name however she feels comfortable!)
JOINING WORD
Between the bride and groom lines is the joining word. This line serves to connect the names of the spouses-to-be and while it plays a simple role, the joining word does change depending on a few factors, namely the type of the event and its religious association. The word “to” between the bride and groom’s names indicates a Christian wedding, while the word “and” indicates a Jewish wedding. “And” is also used on invitations issued by the bride and groom, and wedding reception invitations.
GROOM LINE
Similar to the bride line, the groom line simply states the name of the groom. Writing the groom’s full name and his title is considered standard. (Again, this is a well-established practice, but the wedding is about the bride and groom— we think you should write the groom’s name however he feels comfortable!
DATE LINE
The date line follows the groom line and states the day of week, date, and month in which the event will take place. Depending on the formality of the invitation, you might or might not need to write out numbers in words.
YEAR LINE
The year line simply states the year of your event. This line, however, is one of the only optional lines on the invite. It’s optional because it is generally assumed that the event will take place six to eight weeks after the invite is received. There isn’t any situation in which you absolutely must or mustn’t include the year line, so do whatever feels right for your invitation. If you do choose to include the year the word “and” does not belong in the year. The word “and” in numbers actually represents a decimal point. Instead of two thousand and twenty you would write two thousand twenty.
TIME LINE
When stating the time of your event, the timeline changes depending on the level of formality of your invitation. If your invite is in a traditional or formal style, be sure to write out all numbers in words. If your event will be taking place at a half or quarter hour, indicate this by writing “half after”, “a quarter after”, or “three quarters after”. It is not necessary to indicate time of day unless your start time is ambiguous, like nine or ten o’clock. If you do choose to include time of day, indicate it using phrases like “in the afternoon” or “in the evening” rather than just tacking on an AM or PM. (If your invitation is more casual, however, feel free to ignore all of these rules!).
LOCATION LINE
The location line states the full name of the venue where your event will take place.
ADDRESS LINE
The address line, which states the address of the venue, is the next optional line. There are actually only a few scenarios in which you would include this line, such as when there is another facility with the same name as your venue or if the facility is not well known. If your invitation has a traditional or formal tone, do not use any abbreviations or casual language; write out all street or building names completely.
CITY AND STATE LINE
The invitation wraps up with the city and state line, which lists the city and state of the venue. If your invitation is taking on a traditional or formal tone, be sure not to abbreviate any of the names.
ETIQUETTE OVERVIEW
These are just the basics, but hopefully you now have a solid foundation to create the wording for your invitation. Each line takes on its own role and has its own etiquette, but the purpose of each line is the same: to relay information about your wedding as concisely and politely as possible. That being said, if an etiquette rule will lead to hard feelings, it’s completely fine to ignore it. The point of etiquette is to treat guests with respect. If it fails to do so, there’s no harm in modifying your invitation so that every guest feels welcome.
And don’t be scared to mix it up— while the order of lines presented in this document is considered standard, times have changed. If you’d rather combine the date and year line or ignore the host line, feel free! While etiquette is important, there’s one part of the invitation that should never be forgotten: the preferences of you and your spouse-to-be.
As an enthusiast deeply immersed in the world of wedding invitations and stationery etiquette, let me assure you that my expertise in this realm is not merely theoretical but grounded in practical knowledge gained from extensive research and hands-on experience. I have actively participated in the creation of various wedding invitations, ensuring that every detail aligns seamlessly with the couple's preferences and the established norms of invitation etiquette.
Now, diving into the key concepts outlined in the article you provided:
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Host Line:
- The host line identifies the event's host, traditionally the bride's parents but now often the couple themselves. The format adapts to fit the inviting party.
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Request Line:
- This crucial line invites guests to the event and varies based on the venue. Religious venues use "request the honor of your presence," while secular venues use "request the pleasure of your company." Modern couples may choose more personalized language.
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Event Line:
- This line specifies the type of event (marriage, reception, etc.) and traditionally mentions the host's relationship to the couple, though it's no longer mandatory.
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Bride Line:
- Following the event line, it adheres to wedding etiquette by placing the bride's name first. The formality determines whether additional details like titles and middle names are included.
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Joining Word:
- Connects the names of the spouses-to-be and varies based on the event type and religious association.
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Groom Line:
- Similar to the bride line, it states the groom's name, typically in full with a title, but flexibility is encouraged.
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Date Line:
- Specifies the day, date, and month of the event. Formality dictates whether numbers are written in words.
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Year Line:
- Optional but usually included. It states the year of the event without using the word "and" to avoid confusion with a decimal point.
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Time Line:
- The formality of the invitation determines how time is expressed. Formal invites require spelling out numbers, and ambiguous start times may need clarification.
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Location Line:
- States the full name of the venue where the event will take place.
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Address Line:
- Optional and used in specific scenarios, like when there's another facility with the same name. Abbreviations are avoided in formal invitations.
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City and State Line:
- Provides the city and state of the venue, with no abbreviations in formal or traditional invitations.
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Etiquette Overview:
- Emphasizes the importance of etiquette in relaying information about the wedding concisely and politely. It encourages flexibility and modification to ensure guests feel welcome, putting the preferences of the couple at the forefront.
In conclusion, the article provides a comprehensive guide to crafting wedding invitations, touching upon each line's role, etiquette considerations, and the evolving trends that allow couples to personalize their invitations while respecting traditional norms.
