Sherry Maysonave is the founder and president of Empowerment Enterprises, one of America's leading communication-image firms. Sherry conducts corporate seminars and coaches executives, professionals, and politicians in achieving excellence in communication and image. She is also the author of Casual Power: How to Power Up your Nonverbal Communication and Dress Down for SuccessFestive Casual at Fundraiser
Question: I am attending a fundraiser for my husband's work. It's in the Hamptons on Long Island, NY. The invitation says Festive Casual, and starts at 7pm. It's hosted by an Actor and politicians will be attending. What do you recommend I wear?Kim
Answer: This sounds like quite an event. I am sure that you will want to look terrific, particularly since"The Hamptons" is one of the ritziest locations on the East Coast.
Festive casual means dressy casual attire that has a party-ish or glamorous flair. Festive is not as dressy as semi-formal wear, but it doesn't mean ordinary casual either. With this, you have many options. A pantsuit, dressy separates (skirt or pants) ensemble, and a dress are all appropriate. Chiffon-like dresses are in vogue this season and they are perfectly suited for this type of occasion. Dress style options are abundant as many have ruffles and tiers, which are also popular, while others are simple column styles. For such a dress, wear a dressy sandal (one that has a heel) with no hosiery. Sleeveless styles are "in," as are sheer sleeves or sleeves with ruffles or ties at the wrist.
If you prefer a more tailored look, wear a pantsuit accessorized with semi-precious jewelry, such as turquoise, carnelian, jade, or amethyst. The pantsuit fabric could be silk (including raw silk), wool, a micro-fiber, or a blend. Black-and-white sheer blouses are also fashionable. If black-and-white combinations are flattering on you, such a blouse with a semi-dressy black skirt (long or short) or pants would also be appropriate.
The trick to Festive Casual is not so much the outfit's cut and style as it is fabrics and accessories that look luxurious in texture or color; yet, not ones that are extremely formal. Ideally, even your shoes make a rich interesting statement, while complimenting your overall outfit. Since this event is related to your husband's work, avoid overtly provocative apparel. Be as attractive as possible while striving for an understated-sex-appeal look.
Be sure to wear your best smile and enjoy the event.
Best of luck to you,
Sherry Maysonave
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