My Pants No Longer Fit. Should I Get Rid of Them or Keep Them in Case? (2024)

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My Pants No Longer Fit. Should I Get Rid of Them or Keep Them in Case? (1)

I am currently a senior in college, and I have put on a little weight, which means I’m not fitting into some of my pants as I used to. I’m happy with how I look and have no desire to change my weight, but I have some really cute pants that I hesitate to get rid of in case I can fit into them in the future. At what point are they just taking up closet space? Should I just say goodbye? — Peter, Ithaca, N.Y.

To keep or not to keep one’s old clothes as one proceeds through life — and especially through major life stages — is a perennial conundrum. It is, after all, not just a question of “Will I/can I ever wear it again,” but one of money, practicality, history and identity. Our clothes contain multitudes of memories and associations, as well as versions of our past selves, all of which are deeply entwined with questions of self-image and body size. Those can be awfully hard to toss away.

One of the best recent illustrations of this phenomenon can be found in a book by Kim A. Poldner, a professor at The Hague University of Applied Sciences, called “Love Letters to My Clothes,” which features still lives of garments, along with poetic memories of each, much like an autobiography in cloth. Then there’s Lorelei Vashti’s “Dress, Memory: A Memoir of My Twenties in Dresses,” which was inspired by a question very much like your own.

Yet no one can keep every single piece of old clothing. That way hoarding lies. So how do you decide what is worth saving, especially when fit is an issue? It is possible to outgrow a garment in more ways than one.

You could go the Marie Kondo route and ask yourself, “Does this (still) bring me joy?” Does a garment bring you joy to wear or simply joy to consider: to see and remember the wonderful times in which you wore it or even the artistry with which it is made.

You might also ask, “Does this make me feel bad?” Hoping you can wear something again when the chances are low can be a fast route to unhappiness. Seeing the item can be a constant reminder of a different time in your life, and a different you. Holding on to it can seem like clinging to the past rather than embracing the present, like an exercise in wishful thinking and regret rather than reconciliation and discovery. And that is definitely not worth it.

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My Pants No Longer Fit. Should I Get Rid of Them or Keep Them in Case? (2024)

FAQs

Should you get rid of clothes that no longer fit? ›

It may be liberating, like shedding an old skin. At the very least, it will give you more closet space. And there are other upsides. If you love a garment, but it no longer works for you, consider donating it so it can enjoy a second life with someone else.

Should you keep clothes in case you lose weight? ›

I would say for most people, don't get rid of them. It is likely that you will put the weight back on. You don't want to keep spending money replacing clothes every time you go up and down in weight. You might actually have to buy bigger clothing as people put back on more weight than they lost.

Should I throw away clothes that are too small? ›

Stay within one size of what you are wearing right now, today, and get rid of the rest. If you are currently on a weight-loss journey, undergoing medical treatment, or if you just had a baby then keep some of the smaller-sized items, up to three sizes away, only.

What to do when your clothes don't fit anymore? ›

Exchange clothing if possible for ones that fit better. You can do this at thrift shops, among friends, or online. Once again, you can get a new style without having to fork out too much money. No outfit is complete without accessories.

How do you decide if you should get rid of clothes? ›

If You Have These 12 Things in Your Closet, It's Time to Get Rid...
  1. Old Costumes. ...
  2. Bridesmaid Dresses. ...
  3. Things Someone Gave You as a Gift That You Never Liked. ...
  4. Stretched Out Clothing. ...
  5. Things You're Holding on to Just Because You Spent $$$ ...
  6. Shoes That Leave You Limping. ...
  7. Tangled or Discolored Costume Jewelry. ...
  8. Free T-shirts.

When should I get rid of a piece of clothing? ›

Anything that is NOT comfortable.

The first thing you want to get rid of in your closet is anything that's uncomfortable. It's itchy, the fabric doesn't feel good, the knit bothers your neck, and you don't reach for it because it gives you a skin rash every time you wear it.

When to keep clothes that don't fit? ›

If you're holding on to clothing that doesn't fit you, ask yourself how likely it is that you'll be able to wear them again. If pieces are off by just a size or two and you tend to fluctuate in weight, it might be a good idea to keep them (but not in your main closet!).

How many pounds do you need to lose to drop a clothing size? ›

To “drop a dress size” means losing anywhere from 3 to 10 pounds, depending on who's defining it. While it's possible to drop anywhere from 1 to 3 pounds healthfully in a week, dropping 10 pounds is not only improbable, it's also unhealthy, and can even backfire to make you gain weight.

How many pounds do I have to lose to go down a pant size? ›

How much weight do i need to lose to drop pants size? On average, every 10 lbs of weight a person loses will equate to 1 pant size smaller. So, for example, if someone lost 25 pounds, they would likely drop 2 and a half sizes in pants.

Is it wrong to throw away clothes? ›

And when consumers throw away clothing in the garbage, not only does it waste money and resources, but it can take 200+ years for the materials to decompose in a landfill. During the decomposition process, textiles generate greenhouse methane gas and leach toxic chemicals and dyes into the groundwater and our soil.

How many clothes does the average person throw away? ›

And what do we do with the stuff we don't wear? We throw it away: in the US alone, 85% of textiles thrown away are dumped into landfills or burned. The average American is said to throw away about 37kg/81 pounds of clothes every year.

Is it good to declutter clothes? ›

Own the clothes that allow you to dress for the live you have, not the life you had. You'll discover, not only more space in your closet, but you'll experience less decision fatigue, and cognitive dissonance when you don't have to choose from items that don't make sense in your life anymore.

How to dress when you've gained 20 pounds? ›

Reach for tops that have the most flattering necklines, or go for brightly colored blazers to show off your arms. If you want to keep the attention on your lower half, focus on highlighting your waist, hips and legs. Reach for skirts, dresses and figure-flattering jeans to dress your figure.

How do you get rid of clothes without regret? ›

No Regrets: How To Clean Out Your Closet & Feel Good About It...
  1. Box It, But Don't Give It Away.
  2. Toss Out Any Duplicates.
  3. Give Away Anything That Doesn't Make You Feel Good.
  4. Gather Some Intel.
  5. Force Yourself To Wear Your “Maybes”
  6. Find Ways To Wear Your Tricky Items.
  7. Give Yourself Permission To Only Wear Your Favorites.
Nov 14, 2016

Do clothes get looser over time? ›

In some cases, you may find that rather than shrinking, your shirt actually became looser around the chest, midsection and around the biceps. This is a result of a shirt being stretched out. We've seen this phenomenon occur when certain, aggressive cleaners clean shirts made from fabrics with a looser weave.

Should I give away clothes I don't wear? ›

You Can Declutter Your Closet

Donating clothes you don't wear anymore will make it easier for you to find what you're looking for, saving you time and unnecessary stress. Also, decluttering is very calming. Research even draws a connection between having less stuff and increased happiness!

How long should you keep clothes that don't fit? ›

If you're holding on to clothing that doesn't fit you, ask yourself how likely it is that you'll be able to wear them again. If pieces are off by just a size or two and you tend to fluctuate in weight, it might be a good idea to keep them (but not in your main closet!).

How to get rid of clothes you no longer wear? ›

  1. Donating your clothes. ...
  2. Reselling and consigning. ...
  3. Repairing and repurposing. ...
  4. Recycling through clothing retailers. ...
  5. Recycling through third-party programs. ...
  6. Curbing future consumption.
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