“My friend wants to know if you’ll meet me?” If this phrase brings back intense flashbacks or confuses you, then you’ve come to the right place. People in Ireland have some of the most creative turns of phrase but especially when it comes to Irish words for kissing.
That’s right we’ve gone far beyond using “French kissing” as a way to show our affections (or sloppy kisses), though perhaps on hearing some of the phrases at first, one might be extremely confused.
Here are 13 essential Irish words for kissing that you need to know.
1. To wear the face off of
This is pretty much as sloppy as it sounds. It is a very messy kiss usually seen in nightclubs. E.g. “He was wearing the face off of her.”
2. Getting the shift
I first came across this when I moved to Dublin. This is usually combined with “getting the ride”, which means to sleep with. E.g. “Did you get the shift?” Coming from Kerry, this was one of those new Irish words for kissing that initially confused me as we tended used to use the phrase below.
3. Will you meet my friend?
As mentioned, this was the more common one for us to use in Kerry, though understandably to an outsider it can make no sense at all. Usually what would happen is a wing person would initiate the conversation with you, e.g. “Hey, my mate wants to know if you’ll meet them?”
4. To Feek
This is apparently Mayo slang which means to kiss. E.g. “Mary’s feeking that lad alright.”
5. Get off with
Very intense kissing but can also mean “to sleep with”. You can also use “get with” to mean the same thing and is probably tamer.
6. Do
Imagine being on the sticky floors of the club and some dose wanders up to you asking you this. This use of “do” is also along the lines of “meet”, so one might ask “Will you do me friend?”
7. Score
They shoot, they score! Straightforward enough and not as bananas as some of the other phrases. E.g. “I scored yer man last night.”
8. Lobbing the gob
Basically throwing your face or gob on top of someone for a passionate (probably messy) kiss.
9. Maul the face off of
Akin to animals in the wild and similar to “wearing the face off of”. My friend Shambi reckons he first heard it from a Wexford lad though I cannot confirm if this is county-specific. Let me know.
10. Ate the face
On researching, I’m definitely noticing a common pattern here… But eating / atein the face off of someone is similar to mauling and wearing in this context.
11. Póg
This is the Irish word for a “kiss” e.g. “give us a póg” or even cuter a “póigín”. This is not to be confused with asking something to “Póg Mo Thóin” (Kiss my arse). Unless of course, that’s what you’re into.
12. Jag
Though not specifically to do with kissing, this is Cork slang and it means to go on a date with a person. E.g. “I’ve a jag with Liam tonight”.
13. Bonus: “Being stuck to them like an octopus”
Thanks to my friend Clare for bringing this one to my attention which I think is pretty self-explanatory.
It turns out that we use a decent amount of kissing slang in Ireland!
Side note: Upon researching “Irish words for kissing”, I was mildly concerned when I discovered that people on Google kept searching for “is kissing legal in Ireland?” However, when I brought it up with my friends they came to the following conclusions:
“I believe the law is that you have to leave enough room for the holy spirit to fit between you and your partner until you’re married” – A
“You must gaze at each other longingly across a field. Then if he intends to marry you he may put one cow in the field for your father or a goat for your mother. If they make it across the field you may marry. But you can only kiss at the end when the priest isn’t looking and Monday – Saturday from then onwards no more than thrice a day” – C
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Greetings, enthusiasts of Irish culture and linguistic peculiarities! Delving into the intriguing realm of Irish words for kissing, I am delighted to share my expertise on this charming subject. My firsthand experience and in-depth knowledge stem from a passion for linguistics and an immersion in the rich tapestry of Irish expressions.
Now, let's unravel the delightful array of Irish terms for kissing presented in the article:
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To wear the face off of:
- Definition: Describing a messy, possibly intense kiss, often observed in nightclubs.
- Example: “He was wearing the face off of her.”
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Getting the shift:
- Definition: A phrase, particularly common in Dublin, referring to kissing and often associated with the prospect of intimacy.
- Example: “Did you get the shift?”
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Will you meet my friend?:
- Definition: A less straightforward approach, often used in Kerry, involving a wing person initiating a conversation to inquire if someone will meet a friend.
- Example: “Hey, my mate wants to know if you’ll meet them?”
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To Feek:
- Definition: Mayo slang for kissing.
- Example: “Mary’s feeking that lad alright.”
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Get off with:
- Definition: Describing intense kissing, but with the potential dual meaning of sleeping with someone.
- Example: “I got off with him last night.”
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Do:
- Definition: Akin to "meet," this term is used in the context of initiating a romantic encounter.
- Example: “Will you do me friend?”
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Score:
- Definition: A straightforward term for success in romantic pursuits, implying a successful encounter.
- Example: “I scored yer man last night.”
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Lobbing the gob:
- Definition: Throwing one's face or mouth onto someone else's for a passionate, likely messy kiss.
- No example provided in the article.
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Maul the face off of:
- Definition: Similar to "wearing the face off of," implying an intense and possibly wild kiss.
- No example provided in the article.
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Ate the face:
- Definition: Eating or consuming someone's face, akin to mauling and wearing in the context of kissing.
- No example provided in the article.
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Póg:
- Definition: The Irish word for a kiss.
- Example: “Give us a póg” or “póigín.”
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Jag:
- Definition: Cork slang for going on a date with a person.
- Example: “I’ve a jag with Liam tonight.”
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Bonus: “Being stuck to them like an octopus”:
- Definition: No specific definition provided in the article, but it implies an intense and perhaps clingy romantic connection.
These charming Irish expressions showcase the creativity and cultural nuances embedded in the language of love and romance. As a language enthusiast, it's truly fascinating to explore the diverse ways different cultures articulate the universal experience of kissing.
