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Imagine being in a relationship where your partner's ex-spouse is causing constant problems, and you're not even allowed to speak to their child. Now, imagine that same ex-spouse demanding that you add their child to your health insurance. Sounds like a recipe for drama, right? 😬 That's exactly the situation one woman found herself in, and she's turned to the internet for advice on whether or not she's in the wrong for refusing to add her boyfriend's child to her insurance. Let's dive into the story and see what's going on! 🍿
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Adding Boyfriend to Her Insurance 💏
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Refusing to Add the Child 🚸
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So here's the situation: our protagonist has been with her boyfriend for four years, and his ex-wife has been a constant source of trouble. She's not allowed to have any contact with her boyfriend's 12-year-old son, and the ex-wife is demanding that she add the child to her health insurance. However, the woman refuses for two reasons: it's expensive, and the ex-wife won't allow them to reduce child support payments. The boyfriend supports her decision, but the ex-wife accuses her of being an a**hole for not supporting her son. 🤯 Let's see what the internet thinks of this sticky situation... 💬
NTA! 🙅♀️ Don't make a side deal with her, she has no justification.
Prize-Bumblebee-2192 | Prize-Bumblebee-2192
User advises OP to reconsider relationship, votes ESH. 🤯
trixen2020 | trixen2020
NTA commenter advises against dating a man with messy situation 🤯
cultqueennn | cultqueennn
Former single mother advises woman to leave disrespectful boyfriend.
cathline | cathline
NTA, but run 🏃♀️🏃♂️. BF tolerates kid not speaking to you 😬
NegotiationOk5036 | NegotiationOk5036
Mental health issues and insurance create a toxic family dynamic 😢 ESH
bwhite170 | bwhite170
User calls out woman for being taken advantage of 🤦♀️
LowerSquash6084 | LowerSquash6084
Refusing insurance for boyfriend's child: YTA according to commenters 🤯
MazzIsNoMore | MazzIsNoMore
NTA for insurance, but what's the deal with child support? 🤔
Ravenkelly | Ravenkelly
User defends OP's decision not to add BF's child to insurance.
Aloreiusdanen | Aloreiusdanen
Insurance expert explains limitations of adding partner's child. 👍
Survive1014 | Survive1014
🧁 Don't be a know-it-all, CUPCAKE. No one likes that.
james2020chris | james2020chris
Stick to court orders: Commenter warns of vindictive ex-girlfriend 🤯
lm-thinking | lm-thinking
Drama unfolds as OP insults commenters, resulting in ESH verdict
Regular-Switch454 | Regular-Switch454
Partner should address alienation in court. ESH. 😢
annang | annang
Don't mess with court orders, NTA made the right call 👍
TangledUpPuppeteer | TangledUpPuppeteer
NTA. Relationship status matters in financial affairs. 💍
A_Roachimaru | A_Roachimaru
NTA for insurance, but commenters call out boyfriend's behavior 🤯
Intelligent_You_2803 | Intelligent_You_2803
NTA. Practical and legal considerations justify woman's decision not to add boyfriend's child to insurance.
Federal_Ferret7672 | Federal_Ferret7672
Ignoring boyfriend's child for insurance? 🤔 Not a good look.
carlitospig | carlitospig
NTA commenter advises against adding boyfriend's child to insurance.
stokedd00d | stokedd00d
User advises against adding boyfriend's child to insurance. 👍
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Don't mess with court orders, NTA for not adding child 🚫
santtu_ | santtu_
User says girlfriend should take responsibility for her child's insurance 💭
mcmurrml | mcmurrml
NTA. Adding boyfriend's child to insurance can open a can of worms 🤯
It's not her responsibility to provide insurance for her boyfriend's child 🙅
Queasy-Original-1629 | Queasy-Original-1629
A poignant reminder to prioritize a child's well-being ❤️
gfen5446 | gfen5446
A blunt and humorous comment with no replies.
Inefficientfrog | Inefficientfrog
Defending the OP while calling out the commenters - 🤔👀
giantbrownguy | giantbrownguy
User questions the dynamics of the relationship. 🤔
NightsofWren | NightsofWren
Boundaries matter. 🙅♀️
sunshinewynter | sunshinewynter
Keep finances separate and follow court order to avoid trouble later 💰
zanne54 | zanne54
Don't do it! NTA. You could be financially responsible 🤯
Interesting-Long-534 | Interesting-Long-534
Woman refuses to add boyfriend's child to insurance. NTA.
CrazyCatLady1127 | CrazyCatLady1127
NTA for refusing to add boyfriend's child to insurance 🤯
listentomenow | listentomenow
User suggests leaving toxic relationship due to potential abuse. 👍
bishopredline | bishopredline
Get it in writing! NTA for not adding boyfriend's child.
Andravisia | Andravisia
Heartbreaking situation for a child, messy AF for adults 💔
krispin08 | krispin08
Legality of adding non-dependent child to insurance questioned. NTA.
Fit-Delay3654 | Fit-Delay3654
Adding boyfriend's child to insurance led to financial nightmare 💥
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Red flags raised as woman forbidden from talking to child 🤯
Karlie62 | Karlie62
Boyfriend's child not allowed to speak to partner of 4 years 🤯
JonBenet_BeanieBaby | JonBenet_BeanieBaby
NTA. Commenter questions why woman should pay for child's insurance.
JFKFC | JFKFC
Building a relationship with the child is important. NTA 👍
bluefrost30 | bluefrost30
NTA doesn't trust girlfriend and predicts insurance drama 😕
Mycroft_xxx | Mycroft_xxx
Adding a stranger to health plan? Boyfriend's ex needs to fluff off 👍
ProtozoaPatriot | ProtozoaPatriot
Woman not obligated to add boyfriend's child to insurance policy. NTA! 👍
ZeroZipZilchNadaNone | ZeroZipZilchNadaNone
Curious about the ex's sudden request for insurance coverage 🤔
celticmusebooks | celticmusebooks
Confusion over insurance and child support in relationship drama 🤔
Agreeable-Peanut-457 | Agreeable-Peanut-457
NTA. Practical advice with a hint of skepticism about marriage.
Whattheheckingheck9 | Whattheheckingheck9
User advises against adding boyfriend's child to insurance, cites red flags 🚨
Full_Concentrate5650 | Full_Concentrate5650
User defends narrator's decision to not add partner's child to insurance.
DynkoFromTheNorth | DynkoFromTheNorth
Partner's son causing issues, commenter advises rethinking marriage. NTA
Dry-Clock-1470 | Dry-Clock-1470
NTA. Refusing to add boyfriend's child to insurance is understandable.
SolitaryMarmot | SolitaryMarmot
Promised to return child support money, but never gonna happen 🤯
z-eldapin | z-eldapin
NTA refuses to add boyfriend's child to insurance, questions baby mama's contribution 💰
Save_FerrisB | Save_FerrisB
Consider potential consequences before adding child to insurance 💭
Traditional_Air_9483 | Traditional_Air_9483
NTA. Don't let her take advantage of you. 👍
worthy_usable | worthy_usable
User advises OP to consider the toxic environment and prioritize herself ❤️
Upper_Book_4235 | Upper_Book_4235
12-year-old drama, rude boyfriend, and insurance woes. NTA.
Agreeable-Customer84 | Agreeable-Customer84
Court orders don't require insurance coverage, NTA. Stand your ground! 💪
luhlar | luhlar
Trust your gut, don't add the child. NTA 👍
DifficultyNo3093 | DifficultyNo3093
User calls out all parties for failing the child 👨🏻💻 in a toxic situation 🤯 ESH
CakeZealousideal1820 | CakeZealousideal1820
Sensible advice for boyfriend's insurance dilemma 👍
Aggravating-Common90 | Aggravating-Common90
Adding an ex to insurance? No way. Adding boyfriend's child? Also no.
tellmesomething11 | tellmesomething11
Addressing the child's medical needs should be the priority 👍
Darktyde | Darktyde
NTA stands firm on insurance coverage despite toxic relationship 🤯
Ok_Most_283 | Ok_Most_283
Woman refuses to add boyfriend's child to her insurance, NTA.
lisasimpsonfan | lisasimpsonfan
NTA refuses to add boyfriend's child to insurance. Financial risk outweighs benefit.
Starsonthars | Starsonthars