What brings us back to Rome time and again is not the Colosseum or Pantheon (though we always make a point of strolling past both whenever in town), but the effortlessly chic Roman way of life, from their style to the way they say hello to the way they take their coffee. With Rome, blending in is both practical and aspirational.
How to Greet People
There are numerous ways to greet people in Italy, the most common of which is “ciao,” used for both “hi” and “bye.” But this is a casual greeting, so when you arrive at a restaurant or check in to your hotel, use the more formal “buongiorno” instead. From the late afternoon onwards, this becomes “buona sera”; when you say goodnight to someone, say “buonanotte.” To say goodbye formally during the day, “arrivederci” is the most polite.
Do give a kiss on either cheek if you're a woman embracing another woman or a man. Left first, right second.
Don’t greet another man with a kiss if you're a man. You will sometimes see men kissing each other on either cheek, but only if they’re close friends. A handshake is more appropriate for a first meeting.
Learning the Language
English is not spoken as widely in Rome as it is in other European capitals, so locals appreciate it when visitors make an effort to converse in Italian. In hotels and many restaurants, someone will be on hand to speak in English if you get stuck, but a quick “ciao” or a courteous “grazie" (thanks) will always go down well. Though a simple "scusi, non parlo Italiano" (sorry, I don't speak Italian) will work across the board.
What to Wear
Italians pride themselves on their fashion sense, particularly in the nation’s capital. One staple that will serve you well is a stylish pair of sunglasses, but if you arrive without shades, there are plenty of places to buy your eyewear out on the street. A stylish scarf can also help dress up even the most casual outfit. It’s not a problem to wear jeans, but Italians tend to go high-end even with their denim—so no holes or rips, please. You’ll also want to invest in the right footwear: You don't have to ditch sneakers for pumps (which do not work on the cobbled streets), but make sure you have a stylish pair of street shoes, like Common Projects.
How to Get Around
It can be challenging to rush from one place to the other in Rome, so allow extra time while traveling. The streets are busy and people tend to walk at a leisurely place. Try not to let this bother you, and if you’re really in a hurry, opt for one of the white taxis, which you’ll find at ranks around the city and can also hail on the street. Note, when crossing the road, cars will not stop for you first. Be brave and step out at the crosswalks. The drivers will slow down if they see you crossing. The Roman subway is significantly improved now that the third line, the C, opened last year, but it is still crowded and not that expansive. Rome is small, and all sites are within a reasonable walking distance. If you can, get around on foot.
